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Search Results: being one of the guys
Why do Americans say “can I have” instead of “please may I have” and rarely say thank you?
I've been America 4 times and travelled mainly places such as new york , florida Orlando, Boston, north conway, cape cod, bar harbor. One thing I've found really strange is when you guys order food you'll say "can I...
Babyseal23
Xper 3 Age: 28 Did I overstep by warning a girl I like about creepy guys in our group?
There's this girl I like in a shared social group. We've spoken frequently on the phone, went on a date; she said a while back, though, she just wants to be friends; I maintained that I liked her, and we gave each other...
Anonymous
(30-35) When a guy you know likes your dating profile, is he flirting or just being friendly?
I knew a guy and we both liked each other but it was inappropriate to act on it at the time, although we’re both adults. Recently I was looking on my dating app list of likes and he was one of the guys who’d ’liked;’ my...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Am I unreasonable for refusing to hang out with my friend’s boyfriend who once flirted with me?
Am I being unreasonable? I have a friend who has been on-and-off dating the same guy for about four years. For years, she’s been asking me to come to his house in Surrey and spend time with him, even though I’ve...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do woman have a responsibility to only have kids with high quality men?
Late night debate. The girl was outnumbered three to one "But woman create life" she said, "without us, there'd be nothing." It reminds me of when my mom remind me who gave birth to him and a 6 year old me would snap...
Why will this guy only see me in private and act so secretive?
I’ve known this guy for a month. We always hang out either at his home or in secluded, low traffic places. I can't find evidence that he has a girlfriend. I'm not ugly and no other man has had a problem being seen with me...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this online guy emotionally manipulating me or is it really my fault?
I matched with a guy online but never met him, we arranged 3x and each time something happened, he was asleep till 4pm and then his phone broke He said was we would meet but never did because of how he looked and the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is the SpaceX IPO being used to artificially boost the S&P 500?
The SEC just changed the rules... which makes this IPO go fast and huge. S&P500 funds, indexes and of course, most of your investments are going into this company... at a high valuation. It's not like it's a "great...
Am I being too much for him or does he actually like my company?
So I've been dating this guy for more than a month now, just fun, nothing serious. At first I'd see him once a week for like 2-3 hours at night and he was asking to stay over. When I stayed over one night he started...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is my McDonald’s manager being a jerk or just doing his job?
I work at mcdonalds. Have been for 2 months. The gm is pretty chill most of the time, but he sort of irritates me some times. I close with him 4 days of the week. I mainly wash dishes when we are closing. He lives in...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 Is he losing interest or just busy? How do I decode his texts and mixed signals?
So, I am not the best date, but I want to try to be. I met this new guy around December and instantly we hit it off. We would text almost every day, he would plan dates for us (even got upset that i had to pay for one...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I leave him for someone better?
A few months ago, I fell for a very kind man. He was the kindest, sweetest, caring / moral person ever, has amazing character / personality. It was a whirlwind romance. He called me his soulmate or "the one"... since we...
Anonymous
(25-29) First meeting in person was awful. Why?
i (22F) study in a capital city in my country second year now, university is very hard for me, i feel very lonely and for the last year I've been extremely depressed. there's a guy (22M), he's gay so its nothing romantic,...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 Have you ever thought someone was desperate for you but it turned out they were just treating you like everyone else?
This has probably happened to me multiple times but this post is inspired by my friend explaining "humbling" texts to me. Which she says are when desperate guys try to knock you down a peg after being "made" to put in a...
Why do people suddenly treat me like their emotional rant sponge?
I have now turned to an emotional sponge for many now. It's just I was the one ranting to everyone. I stopped it, started being good in my skin and with my life, made peace with all my issues cause I don't have any...
Anonymous
(25-29) What are we can anyone give me advices?
I (25F) need honest opinions about a guy (29M) I’ve been talking to long distance for a while now because I genuinely can’t tell if I’m overthinking or if something changed 😭 We talk every single day, but we’re still not...
casssseydayo
Xper 1 Age: 20 Girls, what are your biggest red flags on a first date?
What are red flags that immediately rule out a next date for you? One I have is a guy being rude to the waiter/waitress or someone working the register. Like they’re just trying to do their job and make a living and I...
bobafiend27
Xper 1 Age: 24 How do I move on from loving a man who still won’t love me back?
Okay so I met this guy when I was 11 years old and he was 23. He works for my dad and it started as a little school girl crush. I think he was aware as everytime id see him id go all red in the face and act shy but...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do men act so into me at first and then just vanish without explanation?
Okay, so I used to be afraid and avoidant of relationships, but kind of got tired of being alone and after a long distance relationship failed, I tried to finally give a chance to something close to me, shortly was seeing...
Is this strong intuition, pattern recognition, or just a good eye for people?
Over a year ago, I started bartending at this new hotel. One evening there were 3 men that came and sat pretty much in front of the area where I would make my drinks. I quickly noticed 2 of the 3 men. One was being...
RavenWing057
Xper 4 Age: 32 