Search Results: confusing behavior

Learn to Let Them Go

This Take is more for women than it is for men. I’m aware there are guys who can't let go of the wrong person, but I still think this issue is by far and large more of a problem with women. Right now I know some women in...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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When a guy says he wants to “take things slow” What does actually mean? (We haven't had sex)?

When a guy says he wants to “take things slow” What does that actually mean? Hi Reddit, I (23F) have been seeing a guy (27M, German) and I’m really confused about his behavior. We’ve been on 4 dates so far, and he’s...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

He Said He Didn’t Want a Relationship, But Still Kept Coming Back — Then Posted His Girlfriend?

I want to share my experience because I’ve been really confused by this guy. This will be long, but the details matter, because it wasn’t just a simple breakup. It’s been months of mixed signals and push-pull behavior. I...

Leaxleaaa

Xper 1 Age: 26

Why does my situationship keep messing with "i love you"?

I'm in a situationship that started five months ago. A while ago he started saying "I love you" followed by a pause to freak me out followed by stuff like "is what I'd say to my mum if blablabla". I asked him to stop...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Thoroughly confused by his behavior and don’t know how to ask him about his motives?

I went out with a guy 4 times in 3 weeks, with the most recent date being two weeks ago. He was busy last weekend but clearly hasn’t been prioritizing me. His communication suddenly dropped off, too, so I assumed he was...

Katarina88

Xper 5 Age: 38

Hobbies & Leisure

Can a guy and girl go on a platonic vacation?

I (F27) have a friend (M26) im attracted to. We get along so incredibly well. We can talk for hours about anything without pauses. We have the same hobbies, interests, career goals are the same, etc. I’ve known him for 3...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I find my boyfriend’s behavior weird, or am I just overthinking?

I’m sorry my English is not very good. No hate please. Thank you. Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, on and off. He’s funny, he’s cute, nice, understanding, and i honestly feel in love with him so...

Claireeeeexoxo

Xper 1 Age: 21

A situationship isn’t love, it’s emotional abuse in disguise…

We live in a time where “it’s complicated” has become a normal relationship status. Where casual hookups are expected, and commitment is seen as pressure. But there’s a painful truth underneath all the mixed signals and...

LiaRaven

Influencer Age: 29

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Should I end things before they get too serious?

3 months ago I met this guy in one of my classes, When we first started talking we started texting for a few days then he ghosted for around a week. I was chill cause he was only a friend then he came back we spoke for a...

bethrog08

Xper 1 Age: 27

Girl's Behavior

Not Dumb, Just Done……

It’s funny how some guys still think girls are dumb. Like we don’t notice the shady texts, the sudden change in behavior, or the way they start treating us differently when they’re hiding something. They act like...

LiaRaven

Editor Age: 29

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It’s Not Me, It’s My Brain (Only Vibes Allowed)..

Human brains are wired for connection, but not universally. We don’t feel drawn to everyone equally, and for some of us, this selectivity feels especially intense or mysterious. It’s as if our brain is a filter, tuned to...

LiaRaven

Influencer Age: 29

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Why would my guy friend suddenly care about my feelings towards a relationship he wants to start when he has never cared about my feelings before?

We are just friends and there are no romantic feelings on his end or on mine. That's not an issue in case anyone is wondering. I'm just confused on his behavior because like my question states - he has suddenly started...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Are these people talking behind my back?

I'm a sophomore in high school and tend to make many acquaintances and friends. I've noticed some strange behavior from my friends lately. I'm in NJROTC and joined the drill team, where I made a few friends. One girl in...

AmeeliahLeh

Xper 1 Age: 17

Is he actually busy with work, trying to let me down easy, or playing games?

I’ve been seeing this guy for about two months. Around the one-month mark, he brought up that he thought I was acting jealous and said he didn’t see things working out long-term. It felt completely out of the blue—we were...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this goodbye message too much? He friendzoned me and now is sending mixed signals?

I’ve had enough of this guy, I’m so fed up with the way that he’s treated me. We were more than friends then he friendzoned me because I found out he lied about his identity but then started calling me pet names and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’ve had enough of this guy, I’m so fed up with the way that he’s treated me. We were more than friends then he friendzoned me because I found out he lied about his identity but then

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Education & Career

Is my manager a nightmare or is this actually normal?

I work part time in retail and full time in news which I made clear before I was even hired at my retail job. My schedule is demanding and I had to call out of the retail job a few times in a month but I told them the day...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would a woman hang out with a previous friend/ intimate partner who is toxic?

I been seeing a woman for about two years now she lives in California and I live in Texas. I’m originally from California So I go a couple months over there to visit friends and family. When I do I spend time with her...

vman1988

Xper 4 Age: 37

Why would a woman hang out with a previous friend / intimate partner who is toxic?

vman1988

Xper 4 Age: 37