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I happen to take this matter personally because of what happened to me.

When I was 20, I met this 16 year old girl online on an adult dating app. We really hit it off, and we began conversing for a series of months. We both researched the age of consent in her state, and found that it was 16. I drove to meet her, and we had a date. Things got intense later, and we ended up having sex. It ended up only being a weekend fling because she didn't want to pursue a romantic relationship with me. I was heartbroken. We had a dispute weeks later, and she never wanted to speak to me again.

7 months later while at my college dorm, I made an idiotic decision to drive back to her state to apologize and win her heart again. I was met at the door by her father, who was unhappy to see me to say the least. I shook his hand and agreed to cut complete contact. As I went back to my hotel, the police knocked on my door and arrested me. Fast forwarding, I was sentenced to 3 years supervised probation. The collateral damages were just as bad if not worse, as I lost my EMT license and my career.

The reason why I bring this up is because if this were to happen to someone who was elite, had money, or had high influential status, they would have likely just received a slap on the wrist or not have been touched at all by the law.

Instead, an average everyday person, let alone a young 20/21 year old trying to pursue love at that time, had his entire reputation and livelihood destroyed.

These elitist bastards flew 14 year old girls on an island, passed them around as casual sex dolls, and they get away with it completely unscathed. It's sick.

Now that I am 31 and married, I look back in hindsight with regret and sadness I became so desperate. I was young and dumb. But I am even more angry at the devastation it caused for so many years when, meanwhile, elitists just continue to thrive and get away with high-profile crimes.

I have been seeing some videos from female YouTubers talking about how men don't interact with women in the same way due to all of the potential consequences (e. g. being called a creep, MeToo, losing a job, reputation damage). These YouTubers seem to understand that it's by the above reasons, but I don't really hear from any young women in real life having these views. So I want to gauge how common this belief is.

I'd also like to know how your beliefs progressed overtime. For example, maybe you started as a modern feminist and transitioned after learning more; or you never agreed with modern feminism.

All of this information will be used to gauge how likely it is I will get married, since I have no intention of marrying a modern feminist.

As stated. Just turned 30. Really not interested in women older than me, I know some guys are-just not me. I could do a year older than me if a girl was amazing but my age or younger is totally fine. Anything below 24 seems like would be unlikely to work. Earlier 20’s while I don’t think morally wrong just doesn’t really interest me given the age difference. Physical attractiveness is a major factor sure but plenty of women closer to my age check those boxes too.

Anyway what are you thoughts?