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For a little over 2 years, I gamed online with two guys. In the early stages we used to game together more often but it wasn’t as often in the last yr. Usually it was at minimum 2-3 times a week & for hours, it was through a voice chat and eventually we added each other on social media. We met during Covid which explained how we had more free time but the fact we spoke through social media when we weren’t gaming + the rate we spoke at made me think there was a decent thing going. One guy was a bit older than me & was dl annoyed by the other guy that was closer to my age.

Long story short, I kind of got annoyed overtime with the cockiness of the older guy & decided to unfriend him, to be fair I removed the other guy too since I didn’t only want to be on speaking terms with one. The younger guy months later msged me & tried adding me back twice, the older guy msged me and asked why I got rid of him. I was blunt, he apologized & he told me about something really traumatic that happened to him. I was sympathetic & added him back maybe a month later.

After a few months of him not attempting to talk to me, I removed him because I got the impression he didn’t want anything to do with me. I’m pretty sure the two guys aren’t on each other’s friend lists either & they both follow me on IG still. Shortly after I removed the older guy again, he likes/comments on one of my IG posts. Literally a yr later, he looks at maybe 1-3 of my IG stories & this past weekend we were in a gaming session again. That was kinda rare to happen tbh since they’re so random but we didn’t interact AT ALL.

I mean these 2 guys were usually the ones to initiate interacting with me, the older guy very later on shared his # & even called me a “good friend”. Tbh I considered them online friends & would’ve been down to talk again if everyone was actually all in. I don’t think I’m one to get overattached but I’m surprised how they don’t seem to care at all.

I’ve been chatting with this guy that I met online for 4 weeks now. We’d planned to meet a couple times but us being on holiday got in the way. When we finally decided on a day, I suggested to reschedule and he also said it works better since he’s working intensely over the weekend - he’s in investment banking.

I suggested a couple days if he’s free and he mentioned would work much better as he’ll be in working the office that weekend. I then jokingly told him to get out of the office if he has not already last Friday and have not heard back since. The chats were also enthusiastic right before this

our chats have been great for past 4 weeks and he’s been quite consistent w messaging except right now. He did mention crazy past 2 weeks where he’s almost living in the office but I have not heard from him for 5 days now.

I’d just move on if it’s someone I have exchanged a few messages for 1 week with but we have been chatting for 4 weeks w multiple exchanges a day but knowing how scarce his time is, I doubt he’d just be texting to fill the void. What would you assume in my case?

I’m alternating being he’s genuinely busy and he’s moved on for some reason - bear in mind we have never met

Should i cut my losses or extend an olive branch? I don’t want to seem crazy and text if he’s moved on