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Guy in his 40s vs. girl in her 20s?

I’ve been friends with this guy for a while now. I work with him in a sense. My company is his customer. He always jokes that his coworkers know where to find him now because he’s always with me. He’s told me that I’m a...
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Guys, Hello there, 1st time here, and I was wondering what are the things that guys considered as incompatible between a young woman and a guy?

So let's say you meet someone that you appreciate because he/she has a nice a personality, good human qualities (gentle, caring, thoughtful, good communication and listening skills etc). But you do not have the same...
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Ex boyfriend vs fuck buddy?

In a bit of a dilemma. I was with my ex for a year and 9 months but he kept saying that he couldn't see a future together, was always crap with making plans and would gaslight me. Anyway, we decided to be friends and I've...
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The Term Alpha Male Is A Lie. You Might As Well Believe In Santa Clause.

Before I begin I would like to clear up one thing. I am not here to tear down men that have confidence or look up to this ferry tail to gain confidence. I want to free you from an egotistical miInclude a caption for your...
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Guys, does it actually hurt your feelings when you ask a girl to be friends with benefits and she says no?

Like say you're not the type of guy that wants relationships, whereby you're more comfortable with a friends with benefits arrangement. Would it still hurt your feelings if you asked a girl if she wanted to be friends...
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Like say you're not the type of guy that wants relationships, whereby you're more comfortable with a friends with benefits arrangement. Would it still hurt your feelings if you asked a Show More
Hurts my feelings (because she'd probably do the same arrangement with another guy)
Wouldn't hurt my feelings (as long as it was because she'd prefer a serious relationship with me)
Wouldn't hurt my feelings, because I don't have feelings for friends with benefits girls
Hurts my feelings, whether or not she'd do it with another guy, as I still care about my friends with benefits girls
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In a large age gap pair, are there any factors that make you less suspicious / negative about the older person?

Examples: - A 31 year old playboy/playgirl dating a 19 year old vs. a 31 individual who never partied and has had no relationships or maybe one boy/girlfriend. - Her / him encouraging the younger person to have their...
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The "Role Reversal" argument doesn't work because it's exactly what men want

The reality of the treatment that women receive, the condescension, the objectification, is that it is men projecting onto women how they want to be treated. This is for a number of reasons that I plan to get into here...
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Aren't there obvious differences if you cheat in a relationship vs when you're married with kids?

A couple friends and I were making comparisons of cheating when you're a relationship but no kids vs cheating when you're married with kids. Most of us thought that all though cheating is always hurtful and wrong, it's...
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How often do you go out with friends (maybe including your partner) vs. how often do you go out alone with your partner?

Of course this depends probably on how long the relationship is going on. We were much more often going out with only the two of us at the start or earlier phases of our relationship. Its not like we never go out with...
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Ex texted me “heyy” after a break up, should I respond?

We had a pretty messy breakup. We were not together long. He had severe trust issues but refused to take accountability for it. But one time I got insecure mostly because of his constant insecurities (not to blame him for...
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Screwing up a good thing vs. gamboling on something that was great?

10 years ago I was involved with a woman who was 10 y younger for about 2,5 years. It was the best and simultaneously the worst relationships ever. On one side it was so intense, passionate (never before or again),...
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The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.

I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...
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Talk Listen Ratios: A Concept

I decided to write this post after losing a friend. I didn't feel much resentment when we stopped talking. I actually feel rather free now. I believe that his talk-listen ratio is to blame. Let me explain: Talk listen...
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Why do most girls assume their man is going to cheat on them?

Girl’s don’t you realize a man isn’t going to cheat on you if you value him and prioritize him , stop nagging at him and belittling him and criticizing him , Stop comparing him and stop thinking he just wants You for sex...
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Single women vs Married Man love story, Who is right/wrong? What is right/wrong?

My best friend fell for a married guy who also loves her equally but he can't be with her bcoz of his marriage and a kid. Now they both have reached a point that they are emotionally too involved and attached to each...
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Could you seriously date a former (and truly reformed) sex worker?

Years ago I briefly dated a former stripper. She might of done some “side work” but it was never confirmed. But I wouldn’t be surprised if she did. After getting into long conversations with her she was actually much...
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Years ago I briefly dated a former stripper. She might of done some “side work” but it was never confirmed. But I wouldn’t be surprised if she did. After getting into long Show More
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How do I get over my ex?

I'm saving myself for marriage, my ex who blocked me and broke up with me has recently broke up with her rebound boyfriend after 2 weeks. She gave him head and she was eaten out by him. I thought I blocked her on all...
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How do I broach the subject of friends vs more?

I’m 31, he’s 35 We were coworkers for 4 years in the summers while I went to college (first met when I was 19) My Dad was also his boss & they get along super well. I’ll admit I crushed on him initially but I’m very shy &...
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When a guy is in a relationship & has side girls, does he usually treat the side girls really differently to the main girl?

Tbh, the whole idea of men having a side girl or (multiple side girls) when they’re in a relationship is horrible. It’s disrespectful to both the main & side girls, because technically everyone is getting cheated on....
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Your WORST Break-Up as the Giver vs Receiver?

As the GIVER (the one who called it quits) Broke-up with her a day before her grandpa's death, again at her graduation party from high school and the most cowardly method ever: I changed our relationship status on...
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