Guys, Hello there, 1st time here, and I was wondering what are the things that guys considered as incompatible between a young woman and a guy?

[Anonymous]

So let's say you meet someone that you appreciate because he/she has a nice a personality, good human qualities (gentle, caring, thoughtful, good communication and listening skills etc). But you do not have the same interests at all :

- not listening to the same kind of music ( girl/guy like a totally different kind of music you like)

- not liking the same kind of movies (eg horror movies vs super heroes movies)

- extraversion / introversion (guy likes to party a lot vs the other like staying at home or going out from time to time with close friends only)

Are those things considered as incompatible for you guys for going further into getting into a relationship with a girl/guy (even though you were first attracted because of the nice personality of the girl/guy)

[Anonymous]

As a guy I don't worry too much about these things. I mainly concern myself with her morals and values. Because if we're not compatible she'll typically end it. And one thing life has taught me is women are typically MUCH better at determining our compatibility than I am.

[Asker]

So does that mean that as long as the woman doesn't end the relationship, even though you do not have the same kind of interest in life, but she has morals and values, you would still be in relationship with the girl? Wouldn't you want someone who can share some of your interest to "connect" more? Just having moral / values / good personality would be enough?

[Opinion Owner]

No I'm not saying that at all. I'm simply saying that when I meet a woman she typically decides she don't mesh with me before I realize I don't mesh with her. Of course I want to be with someone I get along with. But I'm a guy. I don't typically get to choose who I date. And I don't get to choose who wants to stay dating me, or why. In fact I never expect a woman to stay in my life. So why would I waste time thinking about this?

[Asker]

Thanks, this is clear 👌

[Opinion Owner]

👍👍👍

[slatyb]

I think it's important to have some coming interests. For me, intellectual compatibility is important. I'm not religious and don't date believers, whether it's a religion or other magic like crystal healing etc.

[Bobbysworld]

If both people are open minded then it shouldn't be an issue. They should respect each other's views and it would make great conversations about the topic. You can not like the same thing yet connect by talking about why ulike or don't like it and the aspects of it. Opposites do attract. Unfortunately many people are so stuck to their ways and views its difficult

[Berethor]

Men and women tend to be different, if one want children and other not they incompatible.

[strateguy632]

different film or music is compatible but smoker is not compatible because danger and stink.

[Alex-Snow]

If she had poor hygiene or smoked cigarettes that would be incompatible for me

[Asker]

Haha 😂

[Alex-Snow]

It is the truth however

[shortster]

Interests are of little importance in a long term relationship. Shared values is where it is at.

[Asker]

I agree about the values. But how do you enjoy each other company if you don't have the same kind of interests in life?

[shortster]

It gives us both something new to experience.

[Iron_Man]

A different religion and you have nothing in common in other things either