Examples:
- A 31 year old playboy/playgirl dating a 19 year old vs. a 31 individual who never partied and has had no relationships or maybe one boy/girlfriend.
- Her / him encouraging the younger person to have their parents, siblings, and / or friends present and involved.
- The older partner not being pushy about sex.
My parents were a 6 year age gap and were virgins when they met. Died still together with no other partners. Father died first and mother never got with another. Its very common for men to die first because in old fashioned values they work much harder and eat bad because unhealthy diet contributes to muscle gain.
Many couples with old fashioned values that I have known are average of 10 year gap and stayed together until death. 12 year would fall in to that average. Couples no longer stay together now.
Yes. A large age gap pair where both people are well into adulthood (like 50 and 30) is the best sign that nothing manipulative is going on. When one of the people is a fully settled adult and the other is just on the cusp of adulthood (like your example), that is the biggest sign that the relationship is not good. They are in 2 completely different mindsets and levels of maturity. There is no way for a 31 year old to be on the same level mentally as a teenager. There just isn't. They still have so much to figure out about themself and life.
If there's a big age gap, once both people are over 25 then it's probably fine. Before then it's suspicious. When one is a teenager, it's a huge red flag. Those are the biggest factors.
No. There is absolutely no reason why a 31 year old should persue someone who is 19. The power dynamic is the issue. At 31 you should know better and remember how young and impressionable you were at 19, how little life experience you had.
Basically I put it this way. If you had a little sister/ brother who is 19, would you be comfortable with them dating someone in their 30s? Or would that worry you? Weird you out?
I will never not feel suspicious of an old man dating young girls, and in this case a teenager
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Not really because women are sexually attracted to maturity. Men are sexually attracted to young women.
We are returning to our animal nature's slowly over time.
I predict this will cause a majority of men to become incels. When that happens I see two courses:
The human race becomes like the Bonobo ape. All members are homosexual. Male female copulation is rare and ONLY done by a very small amount of the male bonobos. The females choose who reproduces. It is less bonobo males than males reproduce for chimpanzees in their patriarchal social structure
All men will have no choice but to be gay as the majority will never reproduce.
Either that, or the beta male majority takes the female reproductive power by force and redistribute sex amongst all men again.
the funny thing is so many women tell men to stop "complaining" about not having a girlfriend but the moment a man does get a girlfriend and she happens to be younger, then all of a sudden, these hypocritical women want to start complaining too
No, because I don't care either way what their ages are if everyone is legal. You do you. I'll do me. I don't care about gossipy childishness.
if guy older like charlie chaplin 65 and lady 24 is fine cool but a 65 age lady with young guy creepier.
Honestly no. It’s hard to not see that older person as wanting young flesh. Woman cougar or male.
Doesn't matter as long as both are happy.
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