Search Results: getting closure

Did she lost feeling when she says “if I’m being honest, I had a lot of fun too, I’m just not in the spot/space to continue/pursue anything”?

I hung out with this girl and we actually had a girl great time. Talked for 2 hours straight, no awkward pauses, same energy and how we talk, and agreed to hanging out again. First time I fell in love with a girl. After...

Jjboy500

Xper 4 Age: 23

What does it mean when a girl says “ if I’m being honest, I had a lot of fun too, I’m just not in the spot/space to pursue or continue anything?

I hung out with this girl and we actually had a girl great time. Talked for 2 hours straight, no awkward pauses, same energy and how we talk, and agreed to hanging out again. After the hangout I said I had a great time...

Jjboy500

Xper 4 Age: 23

How soon do YOU personally put all your eggs in one basket (read more below)?

I’ve been wanting to tell my dude the three words for a while now but have been questioning whether I’m ready for the commitment that may come with saying so. But i’ve been feeling impulsive in several categories— wanting...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

Guy I’m getting to know confessed he still gets sad about an ex he had. Red flag 🚩? Run? What to do?

He’s 28 and I’m 25. He basically told me about how he has an ex he still gets sad about even if it’s been years because he fell in love with her while he was studying abroad but she was married and the relationship was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Not getting closure from a past ex I was once serious with years ago still haunts me to this day. Thought I moved on from this. Anything I can do?

***Rude comments will be blocked and quickly deleted.*** Most people nowadays have a romance mishap in the back of their minds. That’s life. I have had several. Including one ex who ghosted me after a minor argument after...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to deal with break up and addiction at the same time?

So I’ve been smoking weed for almost 20 years now, for the most part. There were a few breaks here and there. I’ve been feeling like I’m done with it for some time now but have struggled to stop. I’ve been back...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I ask for closure?

It’s been almost 6 weeks since he ended it. I just said ok and we didn’t speak since. I want to know if I should reach out? While there were some feelings of relief at first, I’m also completely devastated....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Will men ever regret losing a good woman even though he thinks she’s crazy and blocked her everywhere because she acted desperate after a breakup?

We were dating for more than 1 year. During the whole relationship, I am confident that i am a good person to him, and he always told me that too. I have loved him with all my heart, and he knew that and i think he felt...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I don't get why he broke up with me when we never fought help please?

My boyfriend who dated me for 7 years said he wanted to break up but I don't understand we never fought or even got angry at each other why did he break up when everything was going smoothly lovely dovy he broke up for no...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I get closure on all this stuff that’s happened between us?

A girl got promoted and came back to my job and was in charge. We slowly started talking more and I found her annoying at first. She knew about my boy friend and I’ve mentioned we used to argue a lot and I think...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Please take moment, looking for real and true advice (even if harsh), and different perspectives. What should I do, if anything?

Hi everyone, I hope enough people have the time to provide advice and different perspectives. I will try to make this short. I came to the US in September 2022 to study as a foreign student. Before coming I had broken up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She thinks I betrayed her, I did not. What should I do?

Anonymous

(30-35)

The Mentality Behind Ghosting, How to Recover From Getting Ghosted, and Why You Should Not Ghost!

Foreword: This applies to both friendships and dating. Ghosting, in this instance, refers to the sudden cessation of contact via any means, such as text or in-person contact, for any reason. Disclaimer: All opinions and...

xJeremyx

Xper 6 Age: 25

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Ever had a fantasy that you know is impossible but you brain just won’t let go of?

I have a simple “fantasy” if getting closure with an ex from many years ago. I do not fantasize about getting back together or being friends. Even if she miraculously asked me to reunite a damaged part of me would never...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl who gave me a very bad friéndzone experience 12 years ago messaged me out of nowhere on FB. Just blow her off or say my piece?

Way back in 2010 I dated a girl for about 2 months and she suddenly stopped contacting me. Two weeks later she was dating someone else. I didn’t say anything to her for a few months because I was a professional athlete at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are people who get screwed over in dating more likely to screw over other people or think twice if given the opportunity?

I’ve tried to take lessons from bad past experiences and not do the same to someone else. For example I had one ex girlfriend ghosted me after dating for 9 months after a minor argument. A few years later I found myself...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I’ve tried to take lessons from bad past experiences and not do the same to someone else. For example I had one ex girlfriend ghosted me after dating for 9 months after a minor

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What was going on with this girl, and how to move forward?

Context: We are both in our early 20s, I am older than her by about 3 years. So, I worked with this girl for a couple months and during our time working together we started getting close and I started picking up a few...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Why has my old friend kept on delivered & is watching my stories?

I used to be friends with this girl in High school & she lives 7 mins away so we used sleep over a lot but we got distant due to her getting her first boyfriend & hanging out with him & her ex would tell me how she misses...

Anonymous

(25-29)