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Do you ever get annoyed by people not paying attention to anything in public?
I'm at Costco the other day and pushing the kart when all of a sudden I hit this traffic jam. Why is there a traffic jam? Because some asshole decided to put a salsa tasting station inbetween the lambchops and where the...
Advice for Guys: Avoid Unclean Women
Let me tell you a story about a girl I used to know, who actually turns out to be a few years older than me but who lied about her age because she looked very young, even younger than myself, and a lot of people often...
Should I change my whole personality and identity just to be loved?
I have worked hard to build to be this character, it worked in a lot of places, getting marks, getting jobs, making my parents proud, getting parents love. I cheaped out on body, outdoor life in many ways. The place it...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is my restaurant job passing me over for shifts and promotions?
I have been working at this restaurant for maybe 8 months. I am not perfect, but I work very hard. This has been proven by my other employers. I learn quickly, I do my job right and to the best of my ability, and I stay...
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Xper 3 Age: 24 Blake Lively Is Toast... but There Might Be Hope
About a year ago I wrote a Take about the whole Blake Lively - Justin Baldoni case in which Lively accuses him of sexual harassment Blake Lively Is Getting CRUSHED By Justin Baldoni - And I’m Glad . Since then we’ve...
Reflection of the day, are you becoming who you think you are or just telling yourself you are?
Why do you think people are so naturally drawn to what’s easy, entertaining, and immediately rewarding even when they know it doesn’t really add lasting value to their lives? At what point did we start normalizing,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do we need another “Stomin’ Norman” to handle the idiots in the media?
History really does repeat itself. At least Trump is smart enough to not allow embedded reporters in the war theater. I can see someone getting 86’d from a bar, but getting thrown out of a war zone? Only Geraldo Rivera...
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Xper 6 Age: 27 How do I stop fearing I’ll meet someone better and just commit?
I’m an 18-year-old female. I’ve never been in a relationship, never kissed anyone, and never gotten physical. But it’s fair to say I get a lot of attention from men, and I’ve had a few solid talking stages. I’ve been...
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Xper 4 Age: 22 How long should I wait until I ask him to be my boyfriend?
So I met this guy at my senior prom a few weeks ago. He asked for my number, and we've been texting almost every day. I've been on two dates with him, and he gave me one of his hoodies today (I'm wearing it right now)....
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Xper 1 Age: 18 How do you know when your relationship is sufficiently solid for you to propose?
Over the past eleven years, I have frequently responded to questions on this subject and have always said that you should not consider marriage until you have had a few conflicts with your partner. Almost every...
u Are women never actually attracted to the genuine guys?
Lets just say I have been mostly around women who keep chasing someone who is just worse for them. And it's the same from a guy's perspective as well. I have seen guys who are in a bad relationship as well. I was on...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this guy gaslighting me or just breadcrumbing after ghosting?
I met a guy in late 2024 on tinder and we went on two dates. Both were fun (1st was getting ice cream and going to a walking trail, 2nd was watching The Shining at his place and drinking frozen margaritas). We seemed to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do ex's get triggered when the people they left are better off without them?
I can give a few examples off this. My best friend's wife left him a few years ago. Not only is he happy, he is married to someone who is in my opinion superior in every way to his ex, and the reason his ex left him, I'm...
Anonymous
(36-45) What would you change about dating apps?
While I'm no longer using dating apps, as I find finding someone in person is ideal, I know a lot of people still use them so I came up with this idea to make it easier for folks who still want to use them- I would...
How do you cope when others seem to get everything through luck and connections?
I don’t want this to be a long post but I feel that all my life I had to work for everything I had whether this is education, work or social life. I would do at least 2 interviews for every single employment opportunity...
Anonymous
(25-29) Can anyone help me about getting back with my girlfriend?
My girlfriend broke up with me several days ago. Our mutual friend didn't liked the answer ,, No, Never.’’when she asked her about if she gave million dollars to us to make a big wedding if she would marry me, so she...
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Xper 1 Age: 20 Why Most People Never Grow Past High School
We hear it often. People in adulthood still acting like teenagers, or we talk about how our workplace is “so much like high school.” And even adult relationships can still be like that of teens having their first...
No matter how much I improved why am I incomplete and single?
I changed my whole personality, had bad teeth fixed them in a painful year, and had wisdom teeth removed (3 of them). fixed my body shape, became fit. I was shy and very introverted now not so much. I didn't have...
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Xper 6 Age: 30 