Search Results: he said he loves me but now he&#39;s distant

Why won't he block me?

Been talking to this guy for 5 years now, I'm really in love with him he was there for me during the most hardest times of my life, he told me loved me multiple times I figured we were ok, but I found out he's been...

K3K32024

Xper 1 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

Girls, did she wanted me and just because I am kinda distant she stopped talking to me just because she can't be with me?

after argument, my love interest blocked me then after 1 month, she started to talk and when i said why she blocked me she replied because i was so happy ofc she wasn't. i told her to unblock so that we can continue our...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Apologize without feeling needy?

My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago. He asked for no contact a month ago. After 3 weeks of no contact, I called and asked him but he seemed to give the vibe that he is not interested anymore. I was mad because I feel...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I tell if my ex / baby daddy is manipulating me?

I don't get it. We went being long talks everyday and texts. He said he wasn't interested in anyone else just me. Now he hardly calls or texts. He says he doesn't see the need to call our child everyday because their 7. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I think my girlfriend doesn't love me anymore. Any advice?

I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me anymore, even though she insists she does. At the beginning of our relationship, everything was amazing. We had great conversations, shared similar interests, supported each other,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Why was my old friend being BFF so distant and cold with me?

Yesterday my best friend (let’s call her Kristina) and I met up with with our old friend since middle school. Let’s call her (Sammie). We haven’t seen her since she moved away after sophomore year. So when we met up to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he care about me or not?

My ex boyfriend told me that he lied to himself about his feelings for me, that he never felt a connection with me and that he didn't miss me and admitted to not having valued my friendship. He told me most of this a year...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm going to settle for an older man I'm not in love with but if he already knows this (he knows and doesn't care), no harm done right?

The now 46 year-old was an acquaintance from the longest; I was then 18 when we met but declined him for a date. Let's call my ex boyfriend Joe and him Charles. When I was 23 and he was 38, Charles made an offer I've...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What’s his intention?

Me and a guy hang out in the same friend group. I confessed my feelings to him after noticing his attractions towards me since he always shows me attentiveness, care, consideration, act of service, eye contact, mirroring...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he breaking up with me? Proposing? Thinking what comes next?

Hi, Long story short - together for 2 years. Relationship was like a rollercoaster as he is avoidant and I am anxious. We were really in love, he said he has never felt like this towards somebody else. He said he would...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he being distant or am I overthinking things?

So my boyfriend and I seem to be getting into arguments 24/7. Like when he brings up something I try to fix it with him. When I bring up something he invalidates my feelings saying did you stop taking your meds, what’s...

lexih_919

Xper 5 Age: 26

Dating

Do you think my ex (33M) lied to me (26F) when he said he only lives with his ex-girlfriend for the sake of their kid?

My last relationship was with a man who has an 8-year-old son with his ex-girlfriend. When I met him, he told me that he had been separated from her for more than two years but that they still lived in the same house for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

What should I do?

Guys, I’ve been through a really long path love wise. I had my first boyfriend when I was 15.. he passed away in a car accident when I turned 17. I was devastated.. years later I got in a relationship with another guy. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I improve myself as a person? How can I embrace God into my life more fully in the fastest possible way and did I handle things correctly?

So I just got out of a relationship and the experience humbled me. It made me realize that I am not as good of a person as I thought I was. Prior to being in one I thought I was this great and morally outstanding person....

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 26

My girlfriend has broken up with me, but says she still loves me and sees a future?

My ex broke up with me on Friday, and I am completely confused. For the most part, our relationship was loving, caring, and fun, and we’d often talk about the future and plan things way in advance. Last weekend I got...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you fall back in love with your partner after falling out of love?

We’ve been together for about 4 years. The past 4-5 months or so things have been stagnant and a bit distant between us. We used to see each other daily, then he said he needed some days to himself in a week so we started...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex said he doesn’t see a future with me and doesn’t love me. What does he mean?

So my ex and I were together for 4 months before he ended things, and we remained actively in contact and hanging out in the 5 months since the breakup. Since the breakup we’ve hung out many times, he asked to meet my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Hooked up with me ex and things are weird and not sure why?

So me and this girl I was in love with broke up at the beginning of summer and have not spoken to each other until a few days ago. So that day we talked for the first time, and we ended up have sex about an hour later. It...

Anonymous

(30-35)