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Apparently, I'm talking to this girl who recently gotten out of a courtship that went wrong. It appears she's healing from it and needs some time to get her emotions together.

I was just curious. I was thinking of talking to her once a week for a month to see if I could conjour anything and give her some time to heal, but also not stay in it if she's on some forever friend ish.

Was just curious on this perspective. Should I move on, continue pursuing, or a little bit in between. Thank you.

I wanted to call her but she said she wanted to get to know me first. Eventually she opened up a bit as we got to know each other and managed a call. It went pretty well. Maybe she's a bit hesitant cause she doesn't want to get hurt again. It's a bit of a confusing situation but just let me know.

I was thinking the other day about how modern rap has lost its identity because most artists today sound exactly the same. Whether it is female rappers like GloRilla, Megan Thee Stallion, Latto, and Cardi B, or the mainstream male rappers, everyone is using the same repetitive beats and formulas. The content feels so shallow now, mostly focusing on money, jewelry, body parts, and sexual themes, which leaves these newer artists with zero longevity.

I really miss the old-school era where artists were true lyricists and ultimate entertainers. In the 90s and early 2000s, you had heavy hitters like Nas, Tupac, and DMX alongside incredible women like Queen Latifah, MC Lyte, little Kim, and Lady of Rage. They brought high energy, exciting penmanship, clever wordplay, and deep lyricism. Beyond having that hardcore edge, they were multidimensional, highly talented, and had a powerful image. Most importantly, old-school artists had undeniable stage presence and actually knew how to perform and command a crowd live. Every single artist back then had a completely different sound, unique style, and distinct look.

That raw individuality and performance standard are exactly what is missing across the entire industry today. Just look at Queen Latifah hosting the American Music Awards last night—that is the exact level of legend status and ultimate crossover success I want to develop them to achieve.

Do you think that 90s style of music, star power, and performance could actually dominate the charts if it came back right now, or has the music industry changed too much for listeners to appreciate real talent?

I, recently, watched a movie that heavily dealt with the concept of women giving birth to children. While I was watching it, I couldn't help but wonder about a woman's point of view. What do they, generally think, about giving birth to children?

There are certain things that only a woman will ever truly understand. Giving birth to a child, is one of them. Women are the only ones who can do it. Do they spend much time thinking about this? Do they feel as if they're making a great sacrifice, when they choose to have a child? After all, the process involves lots of pain and discomfort. Do they view it as unfair, or are they happy to do it?

A long time ago, I heard a woman say that she feels sorry for men, because we'll never know what it's like to give birth. So, I guess that answers how she views it. Is her view common, among women?

Here are a few questions that I have for women.

If you could give birth to children, without them being required to grow inside of you, would you do it, or would you feel as if you'd be missing out on something that's sacred? If your plan is to have children, is giving birth something that you dread, or do you not think about it, so much? For some of you, is it something that you look forward to, despite it being a physically unpleasant experience?

For me, there's something that's very intriguing about knowing that only a woman can answer questions like these.

Finally, I want to thank you, as you go through life, regularly dealing with issues that men never have to struggle with. You endure discomfort on a monthly basis. Yet, you complain so little about it, that I live my life, nearly completely unaware of it.

I guess this makes Mother's Day, one of the most warranted holidays. Thank you for all that you endure, on behalf of the human race.