Search Results: initiating a break up

Why does my ex girlfriend act like this?

She left me at the end of 2018 and we have a child together. This was the second time she left me, the first time she jumped straight to a guy then came back, I foolishly took her back, the second time she started gas...

Slyfly1

Xper 4 Age: 37

Relationships

Would this be enough 'initiation' on a girl's part to make a guy think she likes him?

It's 2020, and you're 28 years old. You're at a camp-out and meet this girl there (she's also 28, for context), but only a minute conversation is exchanged. She adds you on Facebook a few days later. You live 3 hours from...

archanimal92

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

Guys, would you think this girl likes you?

archanimal92

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy says he "cares" about you but gets upset when you move on even if he doesn't want you?

Long story short he broke up with me over me being upset with him for standing me up after knowing each other for over 10 years after treating me like pure trash and has changed ever since I've been trying to get back...

Cherrylicious

Yoda Age: 34

Holidays

Is it inapprorpriate for me to want to send my ex something for Christmas?

So, he broke up with me but kept wanting to keep contact but when he would do so, he'd be perpetuating my feelings for him by saying he loves me and just taking about feelings so I did put forth a boundary that I wouldn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Break up with girfriend?

So I have been in a 5 year relationship qnd it hasn't been the best. Things went smoothly until everything was fine until I hit rock bottom and the emotional disconnect and superficiality became evident. I never felt...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Told my work crush that just like at work he can message me and he just turns and blankly looks at me and says okay?

Before we never interacted or spoke to one another unless it was work related and I was in a relationship but after my break up and a month after he started to be more interested in talking and I as well getting to know...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Have you ever been in a relationship and not known it?

So me and my ex girlfriend broke up but we still had an apartment together and there was 3 months left in the lease she lived in one area of the apartment I was in the other. But she kept saying we broke up when the lease...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is this normal? My boyfriend meeting his ex and his ex being this friendly?

Hey, everyone, this could be a topic of discussion. Recently my boyfriend's childhood best friend and her ex who shifted to states came to meet him and his friends after 5 years. I know her, as in when my boyfriend and I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Did I mess this up?

My apologies if this is long, and thanks in advance! There is girl I was really attracted to that I asked to hang out last December. She had flaked on a few guys I knew to hang out, so I still gave it a try. She said yes,...

Kamaruus23

Xper 5 Age: 26

Marriage & Weddings

Tips on how to ruin a marriage?

My best guy friend that I've known for decades since we were in school (I use a fake age on here) is in an unhappy marriage and he always tells me he wishes he could be in a happy marriage like mine and my husband's. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

What could be the reasons for our breakup if this is the reason he gave me?

My boyfriend of a year and a half ended it with me 4 weeks ago. He keeps saying he wishes there was a reason because it would make things easier, but things have just felt “off”. I initially thought he wasn’t attracted to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why would my ex come back and talk about his feelings?

He made the choice to break up with me and I accepted it. He's initiated contact with me a lot (I'm never the one to reach out, because I'm not the one who cut the cord). Each time he's always expressing he loves me and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I need to contain myself?

Hello, I am starting to see my FAVORITE ex again.(Im 28 he's 30 and we dated 4 years ago) We didn't end on bad terms the first time around. But we both kind of never got over each other and have stayed in contact (and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Breaking up over long distance?

Me and my girlfriend broke up yesterday mostly because of the distance. It’s been 3 months since she moved. We met when she was finishing college off a dating app and I happened to have graduated from the same college...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Breaking up over distance?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Was my ex narcissistic?

My ex was crazy about me in the beginning, I felt love bombed but at the time I was sort of naive and didn't think much of it. A few months down the road, I could tell he started to not really like me. He made comments to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Feeling much at peace but also confused/conflicted after initiating breakup with toxic/ unhealthy partner?

I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months over the level of unhealthiness and gaslighting taking place. My boyfriend still says im mistaken about lot of stuff and we should take a break instead of breaking up. My anxiety...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Relationships

Pregnant and boyfriend has started being really mean to me. What can I do?

So I'm pregnant and about to have my baby. Me and my boyfriend have a good relationship overall and I love him. Here lately, I've been feeling really sad though. He kind of seems to attack me a lot or withhold intimacy....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Advice needed about this. Should I consider this as a sign?

There is this girl I met half a year ago. She had problems in uni, and through a mutual friend, I started helping her (for free from the start). When I "accepted" to help her, I did not know anything (not even gender) it...

Anonymous

(30-35)