Is it inapprorpriate for me to want to send my ex something for Christmas?

[Anonymous]

So, he broke up with me but kept wanting to keep contact but when he would do so, he'd be perpetuating my feelings for him by saying he loves me and just taking about feelings so I did put forth a boundary that I wouldn't talk to him about feelings like that because I still love him but He kept at it, so I went no contact because why couldn't I just have a normal conversation with him, he wants to be just friends but talks differently.

I want to send him an anonymous Christmas gift, like money, because it fulfills my need to give and I don't need him to necessarily know it's from me. He doesn't have many people who care for him like that. I haven't spoken to him in 3 months, I just don't want to initiate direct contact where he's going to start the emotional conversations. I wanna just show I care and the fact only I know would make me happy enough.

[StevenMcGarrett]

That's a terrible idea. Let your ex stay your ex. Only bad things could happen if you did that.

[Wise4myage]

I think its ok to do that, just don't go overboard.

[jahaims]

Yeah

[In_Trance]

Yes it is