*******On and OFF No Relationship of Ups and Downs. I never OPTED to GO back with Him. I Dumped Him a Year Ago. xxoo
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Should I or Not------Send a Gift to my Ex After One Year of Our Break Up?
Nope. Don’t. You dumped him. Last thing I’d want from an ex is a gift if she was the one who dumped me. It’s like an insult or something. May give him mixed feelings. Maybe even give him hope that you’re missing him or wanting him back. Besides maybe he’s found someone else. You dumped him for a reason why you still keeping tabs on him. I don’t get this w women. You dumped him, kicked him out or whatever the case is yet you see him living a better life or w a new girl now you’re all torn up. How could he move on this quick? Why isn’t he responding to me? Etc, etc. move on, let him live his life.
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Don't send him a gift, he'll interpret that as an attempt to get back together. Just send a short text message wishing him a Happy Birthday. That's what my ex-wife and I do on each other's birthdays... we had an amicable divorce several years ago.
Probably It’s better you allow him time and space to grieve and move on. Gift will only give him mixed feelings and an unnecessary hope.
But you know the dynamics better and the final decision is yours. I am sure you guess what would feel right thing to do. Follow your heart.
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U shouldn't honey
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No, don't let him know you still think about him and imply that you still half wish you were still together
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After a break up, the only way you see your ex should be in your rearview mirror!
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Yes ! Yes! Yes! you only live once. Let us know how it goes though lol
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If you dumped him over a year ago, why are you doing this? All you're doing is giving him mixed messages! Don't do it! Are you trying to still be "friends"? I used to HATE it when girls gave me conflicting messages! My internal hard drive crashes when fed conflicting data! I always wondered why girls do this! You dumped him. Now after a year you want to send him a gift? What are you trying to accomplish here? Are you having second thoughts about having dumped him?
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Well this man says hell no if you had an ex as I did, if I was to see her in 25 billion years it would still be too soon, and to spend another movie on a five for her I respect you ladies but she you guys and gals can do so you please this man won't ever do that
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That depends how close you two still are. If you’re friends? I’d say go for it. My ex bought me and Xbox for my birthday last year. 🤷♀️ We get each other Christmas gifts last year. We’re still close friends but certainly not going to get back together. If you’re not really close or anything, why bother?
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Why would you? It might make him think you want to get back together. It's not good to suck water back up after it has gone under the bridge and put it back upstream.
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Hello Paris. Generally I would NOT send an 'EX' anything. I know it seems magnanimous, but you invite unintended consequences. He knows you better than anyone else. Even if this person is not in your near field they can still send back 'barbs' that will further hurt you. When it is officially over, both parties deserve their privacy.
Please heed what YesterdaysChild wrote.
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think about the bond you want to cultivate w him.
honestly, and i think you know this, it sounds like a soul tie. and not a healthy one, but who am i to judge, i’ve been down this road.
personally, i would tally up the gains and losses and move according to which gives me the most benefit. my current goals is peaceful connections and financial independence, so it’d be a no for me, but whichever your goals are, stay true to them and make moves that will help you get closer to your dream self 💜 -
You dumped him equals no gift no nothing unless you are friends. Other than that leave a sleeping dog alone if you see him in passing wish him a happy birthday. Sending gifts to an ex can really play on their emotions if you two aren't in common grounds.
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If you are not planning on going back, the question is what are you hoping to accomplish with the gift? Friendship? Closure? If it's just friendship is he open to being just friends after he's seen you naked?
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somehow i imagine you'll put this song on in a skimpy little outfit then...
https://www.youtube.com/embed/vYMxOzxKYYo - s
Since it is a up and down relationship I'd say yes cause what if your feeling like getting back together again latter?
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I wouldn't. It could send mixed signals. With exes, it's better to keep a straightforward relationship or no relationship at all.
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No, you shouldn't. That won't allow you to move on and forget him. Besides, it can give him false hopes if he's still in love with you.
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It would be nice of you to send him a gift but he might think you want to get back together with him
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No. I would avoid mixed signals or further emotional entanglement.
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Depends how your relationship with him is now. If you're friends, why not. If not, why bother?
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No. Use that money to buy a toy for a poor rug rat at Christmas.
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no, my ex expects bday presents but i ain't obligated to buy her presents anymore thats her new mans job 😂
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