Break Up & Divorce

Was my ex narcissistic?

My ex was crazy about me in the beginning, I felt love bombed but at the time I was sort of naive and didn't think much of it. A few months down the road, I could tell he started to not really like me. He made comments to me that I'm slow at picking up jokes, he insinuated that he didn't like how my parents are immigrants and apparently that doesn't make me fully American. I felt like he scrutinized the way that I talked, I reminded him that English isn't my first language and I'm trying to improve myself. Towards the middle of summer, I got an acceptance letter to a college that I really want to attend. I told him about the good news. He asked me what program I'm enrolling in, I said it was the associates program. He said "is that where you're gonna stop at? Just associates?" His comment really pissed me off. He seemed like he tried to diminish me any way he could. He doesn't even have a degree, he has a diploma and I don't find anything wrong with that. He was hot and cold with me always. Before the break up, I already felt very devalued and objectified. It's like he only liked me for my looks. He never posted out relationship publicly and never wanted to take pics with me. I finally broke it off with him. I think he waited until I initiated the break up first. Some time later he finds me on social media and starts messaging me. I should have really just ignored him and blocked him, instead I ended up replying to him and then for some reason I thought to give him another chance. We were gonna meet up at a cafe on a Saturday, but then he completely ghosted me. I felt a whole other level of betrayal and emotional pain that's just undescribable. I finally got over this jerk. This whole time though I ended up with pretty bad self esteem after all this. A part of me just wants revenge on him and subconsciously I have this thing where I want him to see my worth and it's just so wrong. I wonder if I might need some therapy after all this.
Was my ex narcissistic?
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