So I have been in a 5 year relationship qnd it hasn't been the best. Things went smoothly until everything was fine until I hit rock bottom and the emotional disconnect and superficiality became evident. I never felt emotionally connected with her as she's totally unable to provide that, though she's amazing in the bedroom but when I was at my lowest not willing to socialise or go out, she was pushing me to visit her (we are in LDR, she's in London I'm in Malmo) and I didn't so she would come , not to give much support but to have sex, get attention from me and even started wearing makeup and sending me videos and selfies of herself in various dark makeup looks like dark lips etc to get my attention on her. I was obviously annoyed and she would become even more temperamental.
She returned to London and then started pushing me to visit her the same week which I didn't want to as I didn't want to socialise. I only wanted my best guy friend of 15 years my, my mum and brothers around me but she was really wanting me to visit her. I didn't and she got upset. Eventually I visited her 3 weeks later but I was so unsatisfied. Thankfully, my Hest friend and another great guy friend of ours whom we have known for 10 years helped me get through things.
I finally feel much better.
I dont want to be in this relationship anymore but the thing is that we share the same huge circle of friends. She's added all my friends on her Facebook, added my mum, my brothers and my cousin sisters on her Facebook and is totally meshed in with my circle.
How do I initiate it a break up in this case? Have you guys ever had a situation like this where you guys had this kind of meshed social circle? Or am I stuck with her for life?