Search Results: long distance ex

Am I asking too much? Am I the problem? Am I not worth the effort? I would never judge anybody on their past experiences?

my boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. He’s in cali I am in PA. We’ve been together for five months and yes, we have had a lot of speed bumps. His ex reached out to me on social city videos of them...

Squirrelwhisperer

Xper 1 Age: 42

Is there another type of break up I don't know?

Long story short, one day he calls me and start to say he talked with his ex yesterday, n how great she is, started to belittle me in everyway comparing to her, the way he talked was as if he made a mistake being with me....

Anonymous

(30-35)

My guy friend slowly seems to be getting distant and taking forever to respond but says everything is good?

My guy friend and I started talking in January on instagram when he was out of the country. I knew him cause of his ex. They had broken up months before we started talking as she was cheating. After 3 weeks of talking and...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Am I the problem?

Ok get this. My boyfriend ghosts me and then tries to break up with me through one of my friends let's call her Sally. Sally sent him a long message of what he was doing wasn't okay. He ghosted me for 2 days!!! And my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it okay to want to get rid of his gifts?

My ex boyfriend and I were going long distance. He gave me beautiful gifts, but he couldn’t be bothered to fight for our relationship. Every time I look at the more personal gifts? I feel resentment bank up in me as I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would an ex keep reaching out?

I’d like your honest opinion. There’s a man, let’s call him C. We’ve known each other for almost 20 years. I was 13, he was 17 when we met. It felt like we knew each other forever. Friends for 8 years, then a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to get over the guilt of talking to others after a breakup?

My long-distance boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me a month ago as he got tired of long distance. The breakup really hurt me but I agreed with him. It was the only relationship I have ever had. However, today I had to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My ex and I had a bad break up, and I have to stay in contact until some financial stuff is worked out, how should I respond to “how are you?”?

So I moved across the country for my ex after doing long distance for 6 months, I don’t know anyone here. She broke up with me on the way to the place I was planning on proposing. It just got really ugly. And now I am in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I ghost someone I’ve been dating?

Been dating a female for about 6 months… We went on 1 date & spent quality time with each other twice… I was approached by this female saying she liked me and wanted me for years once she found out i was no longer in a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Been dating a female for about 6 months… We went on 1 date & spent quality time with each other twice… I was approached by this female saying she liked me and wanted me for years once

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Should I text her?

So I've been broken up with my long distance ex for like 6 months and we were out of contact for almost 3 months and recently she was in relationship with another guy but they broke up so I was worried about her and was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you move on from someone you can never be with?

So there’s this guy I’ve had a bit of a crush on for a while now. He’s my friend of 3 years and we’re fairly close. We’re always there for eachother for ex for him I’ve helped with leaving his abusive exes (one he is...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I dump this person?

I (25f) been talking to this guy (25m) for about a month and a half. The first month we were long distance and he seemed fine. However, when the gap closed as in, I moved to another city that was closer to him (for other...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can two anxious attachment styles work or will the constant overthinking and worrying ruin the relationship?

First off I would say I'm an anxious style, I've always been with girls that are avoidant attachment, to me avoidants are people who are unlovable as they run from relationships and act like they don't care, where as...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Education & Career

How to not be nervous while teaching a class that predominantly consists of adult male Students?

For context: I am 23 years old. I don't have any prior experience in teaching and for trial I've to teach at a technical university for few months. The students are mostly adult men, who are quite around my age. Also I'm...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to be okay with the thought that I'll be single forever?

I dated my ex for two years. That was my first ever relationship. When we met each other, I had started my postgraduation while he had started working after he graduated. It was long distance and I was planning to go to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why does my ex stare at me when he’s the one that broke up with me? He stared staring at me when I started not talking to him as much/ignoring him?

For context when we split up, it was more him ending it as he wasn't in the right place for anything serious, which Is what I wanted at the time. We ended on okay terms, I kind of said i got why he did want anything...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I make her stop liking other guys post and talking to other guys otp?

(long distance relationship by the way) she always likes other dudes post and she has this one guy bsf she runs to when me and her argue. I've told her multiple times i dont like that and she always says that their her...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What a text to send you your ex to get her back?

She left me over a week ago. Long distance relationship. I made a lot of mistakes but we had so many plans she even bought me something for Christmas. I really feel crushed. I sent a long apology text but she ignored me....

Anonymous

(25-29)