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Search Results: saying no to a guy
Is my neighbour’s grand romantic gesture sweet or just creepy stalking?
I moved into my new apartment 3 months ago and I started using the communal gym. There was two guys also in there and one kept giving me the eye. I found it really awkward and uncomfortable so I said "can I help you...
Anonymous
(25-29) Did I just get played?
I am very lonely and have no one. No friends, no family, live in a city where its hard as hell to date. So I went on a dating app, very cute guy messaged me. We texted for 2 weeks, we got to know each other very well. By...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I confess my crush to an older senior before he graduates?
I have this crush on a guy at my school (that’s how it always goes, right?). I’ve been thinking about telling him that I like him, and in a casual, non stressful way. It’s in terms that I’m okay if he rejects me or...
TimidKoi
Xper 1 Age: 17 How can I reject a man politely while making my no feel final?
I’m trying to understand how to handle this better. I’ve posted of this situation last week, where I told a guy I don’t see a connection to proceed with the 2nd date but he still persists. I went on a date with a guy — he...
How can I calmly distance myself from a female coworker for peace of mind?
Never thought I’d see the day I would say I don’t want to talk to a woman but I’m just happier alone not having to worry. About saying the wrong thing if I get em out my life I have no worries I notice when I say little...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did my aggressive boyfriend break up and blame me for talking to his mom?
I dated my boyfriend for about a year, but I was always trying to break up with him because he was always aggressive with me and never changed. In the beginning, he used to apologize for his mistakes, but after a while he...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is my building’s maintenance guy actually flirting with me?
I [27F] have neighbor who is also the maintenance guy for the building. He's in 30s, He’s talkative and he forgot his "screwdriver" in my apt x2 times, both times I texted him to pick it up. When he came over for the 3rd...
miadee
Xper 7 Age: 28 Why does he keep complimenting me non stop?
I met this guy on a dating app. He told me that he wanted marriage and children. But then after two weeks of romanticizing each other, he told me that he was scared to meet since he was scared of liability and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it normal to just want a regular, exclusive sex partner without dating?
So I’ve had absolutely 0 luck on dating apps thus far which to be fair, I haven’t put a whole lot of effort into. A few matches but, no messages back. Either way tho, I keep seeing all these girls saying they dont want...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 Why is my autistic guy friend acting weird after my big weight loss?
Or why would they sabotage them getting fit and in shape? My guy friend has been acting funny since I lost 80lbs and I got slimmer and in shape. He’s happy for me don’t get wrong but he said that I’m unapproachable...
Anonymous
(25-29) Boyfriend’s mom hates me over caste and rumors—should I meet her?
So i have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years, we both are from indian family but he is a different caste. So last year his mom found out about us and it was a big issue in his houshold they argued cried everthing...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do I keep dating assholes, and how do I stop oversharing?
I'm not asking this for myself. I'm asking on YOUR behalf. You who are asking the same question as I did. I'm going to give you the advice a woman gave to me... Shut The Fuck Up!!! Stop giving them so much information...
Anonymous
(36-45) Was he just after sex?
Hi all. I was seeing a guy for a month, met up 9–10 times, mostly at his place, outside or drove in his car. His ex cheated on him but he forgave her, then they broke up. He plays the guitar, I sing & we planned to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Guys, how often will you offer to help a woman with something? How did she respond?
Every so often, I'll see a video online of a woman who is upset because she'd needed help with moving something heavy or awkward, changing a tire, spotting at the gym, or some other task that a man would typically do, but...
u I feel awful about what happened with the guy I was dating. Did he lie all along or was he just avoidant?
I was dating a guy for a few weeks and had been on a couple of dates. Things were slow paced but I figured from what he explained as wanting to build an emotional connection first, that this would obviously build up...
Anonymous
(30-35) Did he already lose interest after our date?
I had my first date on Friday with a guy I matched on a dating app with. He was the one who planned the date despite being busy & even texted me on the day of the date if I can still make it. I would say the date went...
joanjane12
Xper 2 Age: 25 Guys, What would make you pull your hand away abruptly?
Was walking with a fellow who always insists on being the last one at my events so he can walk me to the cab/bus I'm taking. He'll even wait with me till it comes. We were walking and he started doing the whole bumping...
Why is he keeping up with me?
Hooked up with this man out of state in September of last year while I was out there on vacation. We had prior dealings before that, but that was my first time ever meeting him. He took me to this restaurant, spent a bag...
Anonymous
(25-29) What should I do with that man?
I met this man in a park 2 years ago. I was just jogging, and this man suddenly just approached me and befriended me. He wasn't creepy before. He is a married man. I go to the park every 5 AM to jog. This guy wanted me to...
Anonymous
(25-29) My best friends and parents keep saying my guy friend is in love with me and I should give him a chance, why can’t I stop thinking about him?
Now I’ve always dreamed of having a tall, good looking guy and marry him or at least a guy I can share my life with. I NEVER get the guys I want but the guys that want me, I DONT WANT THEM. I was a fat tall teenager and...
Anonymous
(25-29) 