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• She got into relationship with a guy with from different city.
• She isn't generally available for chat or call. She rarely initiated any chat from her own side and if guy messaged her she replied after quite a long time stating that she is very busy with domestic work, her parents and baby sitting her brother's kid and supporting her brother's pregnant wife.
• She is very busy with house work and that she keeps her phone on silent mode generally.
• She has a habit of sleeping early by 9:30 in the night and waking up by around 8 am then doing household work. Then sleep for three hours in the noon 2 pm to 5 pm. Then work again.
• Currently she can't focus on the guy. Her priority is her parents, brother's kids as of now.
• When she'll move in with the guy she'll give him all the time but not now.

So what can be said about her behaviour, her feelings for the guy and should the guy continue with her despite asking her to give him more time?

I was in kind of a relationship with a girl with a girl from different city. She wasn't generally available for chat or call. She rarely initiated any chat from her own side and if I messaged her she replied after quite a long time.

Her reason was that she is very busy with house work and that she keeps her phone on silent mode generally.

She has a habit of sleeping early by 9:30 in the night and waking up by around 8 am then doing household work , taking care of her brother's family and his kids. Then sleep for three hours in the noon 2 pm to 5 pm. Then work again.

So , she doesn't have much spare time for me.

I always questioned about her feelings towards me because of her behaviour.

Recently she got really furious at me and texted really harsh thing about me , my family and also body shamed me and then blocked me.

Now , what should I do? I have texted her (SMS) sorry to her later.

I feel like my ex was emotionally abusive. I used to really be into her more than she was into me. She used tell me “I didn’t want this relationship, you did”. And when people would ask how we met she’d say “I didn’t wanna date him”. I explained to her how it hurts me when she says these things m. And she’d say “you’re just insecure”.

What’s even worse, she told me about how before we started dating. She went on dates with guys who she really liked and they rejected her. So am I the nice guy who finished last?

I used to be highly attracted to her. She never wanted sex with me, at the same time, complaining that her ex boyfriend didn’t want sex with her. She barely wanted to be affectionate with me.

Even worse, she used deliberately turn me on so she could sexually reject me. Would tell me “come over I’ll lick your balls and your butt” and refuse sex when I show up. Every single time we’d have an argument, even if it’s minor she’d say “you’re getting none”. So I started keeping silent to avoid conflict.

She used to complain that I’m not making her happy and give me reasons why. Which I’ll admit I’m not perfect, I know I have my flaws and bad habits, but. When I’d tell her what she’s doing to make me unhappy she’d reply “you knew I was a bitch when you met me”.

About 3 weeks ago we went to a Thanksgiving dinner at her friends house and I felt like she was kinda flirty with a guy. She seemed very touchy with him. I even saw her put her arm around him. I mentioned it to her a few days later. About how I was uncomfortable with how she behaved with him, and again. Told me “im insecure” and broke up with me. Denied ever putting her arm around him when I saw her do it.

It’s been a couple weeks and I’m still emotionally hurting over her. Haven’t been able to eat or sleep. Having nightmares and visions of her in bed with other men. I’ve dated and had sex with other women since. But I still can’t get her out of my head. What should I do?