Is my bfs phone habits suspicious?

[Cass510]

Been together 4 years and he’s been faithful from what I know. Since we been together he always takes his phone everywhere to the bathroom, when he sleeps and I always thought that he’s hiding something but I can always look through it when I want he gets annoyed but I do it. He sleeps with it and if I hear something in the middle of the night he will show me it’s nothing. He says he doesn’t like me going through his phone as we been together 4 years where is the trust? I know he does it when I’m not there too, we are on the phone and he will go to the bathroom and sleep with me on the phone so

Suspicious

That’s how he is, not suspicious

[Anonymous]

It is understandable to feel concerned or suspicious about your boyfriend's phone habits, especially if he takes his phone everywhere and gets annoyed when you look through it. However, it is important to consider whether your behavior of checking his phone without his permission is respectful or healthy for the relationship.

Trust is an important aspect of any relationship, and it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about your concerns and feelings. It is important to approach the conversation with empathy and understanding, and to avoid making assumptions or accusations without evidence.

It may also be helpful to work together to establish clear boundaries and expectations around privacy and trust in the relationship. This could include setting boundaries around phone use and privacy, agreeing to share passwords or access to certain accounts, or establishing regular check-ins and communication to build trust and openness.

Ultimately, it is important to prioritize your own well-being and values in any relationship, and to communicate your needs and boundaries clearly to your partner. If you feel uncertain or uncomfortable about your boyfriend's phone habits or the level of trust in the relationship, it may be helpful to seek guidance from trusted friends, family members, or a professional counselor to help navigate these complex dynamics and emotions.

[worldscolide]

Lol I'm the same way.. I'm on call for two weeks once every 3 months. I cannot miss those calls. Additionally my phone is company property, meaning it's illegal for me to allow her access to it..

Please stop making something out of nothing.

[Redstang88]

No. I’m the same way, you can’t go through my phone and I don’t need to see yours

[LiamJHayden]

He let's you check it randomly. If he were hiding anything he wouldn't.

[CoolCatMar1]

Not suspicious