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Is the belief or ideals of Monogamy inherently toxic?

For example Hollywood ideals we have come to know such as true love and soulmates demand both partners to be perfect for the entire marriage or relationship! Or otherwise it was never true love!

When we all know that human beings are inherently imperfect creatures, make lots of mistakes, and grow and change as person over time including our interests and dislikes.

Jealousy, suspicion, and mistrust is a huge part of monogamy! even though they will never admit it they will always have some doubt in the back of their heads. Why were they nice to x person or say x to that person or act in x way.

There are so many stipulation to marriage such as limiting interactions with the opposite sex, obligatory huge expensive weddings, obligatory expensive wedding ring, obligatory children, etc. etc.

If by some chance you are both miserable, divorce is a taboo and frowned upon and you are forced to stay with a person you hate for the rest of your life! And if you do get a divorce both partners fight tooth and nail to get as much from the other as possible and get control of the kids. etc. etc.

What do you guys think? Is it fair to trap a person to be with you for your entire life for your own selfish desires, beliefs, or insecurities?

What is wrong with loving every human being instead of being forced to just be with one for your entire life?

When I know for sure a guy is being a true douchebag to a woman I will call him out. I’ve given women on GAG advice on how to handle these situations after I get the full story & details of what happened.

Not only is it wrong for a man to abuse women but it makes the rest of men look bad. We are already getting judged as a whole in modern society. The last thing I want is more examples modern feminists can use to disparage us.

But I do not call out other men just to “impress women” especially when I know the guy isn’t bad but maybe just socially awkward or (harmlessly) weird.

But there are a lot of “modern guys” who do that bs nowadays and it’s disgusting They will throw other men under the bus when they know it’s unfair but their goal is to impress women. Sadly it often works for them.

I have met a handful of awesome women who will call out female bullshit when they see it. I do not think they are doing it to impress men either.

However I really do not see this often enough. On one end women know that men prefer to fight their own battles. However there are some battles a man just can’t win when they are dealing with shithead females. For example there is little a man can do to fight back at being unfairly labeled “a creep”. But another woman can effectively call out a cunt female for doing that much better than any other man can when she knows what’s going on.

However I rarely if ever see feminists calling out other women who:

• freeload and mooch off men
• use their bodies to make money (onlyfans).
• physically assault men and cry victim when a man hits her back.
• file (proven) false abuse/sexual assault allegations. Feminists never called out Amber Herd.
• Use their gender to get job promotions yet underperform at their job.

It just seems women often give bad women “a pass” more often than men do. Why? Men don’t give other men a pass to act like a douche bag just because the man has “feelings”. Men judge other men on their actions not feelings.