dont send shit to that dumbass. if he was broke he shouldn't have paid, thats in him. but thats fucking crazy he did that, and the fact he knows where you live is a bit concerning.
whenever a guy buys you something or gives you money, you're not obligated to give it back or pay it back. period. I've had guys buy me shit, and the last guy bought me a video game and ghosted. i didn't zelle him LMAO.
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I have a guess that he bought the shoes because he was hoping to become intimate with you. Pure manipulation. These are the types that would go around bragging about being a “nice guy”. When really, they wanted things in return.
If he'd be happy to gift you the shoes, that would be fine.
But that does not seem to be the case.Seams he thinks you owe him something for getting you the shoes.
It's probably better if you just pay him back whatever the shoes cost so he can't hold that over you.
Ofcourse you should pay. It was anything but a gift and more like you owe him. Personally, I can't stand the fact that someone pay for my stuff unless it's a committed relationship which yours wasn't. My advice is to pay and not see the dumb bloke again.
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