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Search Results: how to get him to stay
Why did my ex text me after over 2 years?
My narcissistic ex texted me after over 2 years. (Back story: i had dumped him years ago (was tired of his unstable behaviors) then he came back after a month or so and i let him in thinking he was actually sorry, he...
Anonymous
(25-29) What do you think about this dynamic? what should I believe?
So, here's the situation: I was at an event with my boss, and he couldn't drive me there, so he asked a gentleman (the head of that reataurant where the event was held) to drive me in his car. When he called me, he said,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do you think some women use the kids to hurt their father?
There are times I think about my niece and nephews especially nephews. There are times I wish I could put my brother in a time machine and undo his last marriage. Before divorce, my brother now ex wife was putting the...
Anonymous
(30-35) I went on a date with a girl, got along pretty well, ended up going back to her place and hooking up, but now I don’t want a second date?
So we were talking for about a week, we both want long term relationships (I’m open to short, but I do want something long lasting). We got along great on the date, I was a little tipsy and she was laughing at everything...
jfarm
Xper 4 Age: 34 Guys, Do you offer a girl an "out clause" to being with you? Why?
A guy has been volunteering for me on a project for a few months now -- long story short, his original handler had to bail bc of an emergency, so now I'm babysitting him. (The guy's funny and sweet in some instances,...
Why do my lips stay chapped?
Like I can't seem to get them to stop having cracks and peeled skin. It really hurts.
Anonymous
(30-35) What is the point of having a platform that encourages ADULTS to ask questions when you remove the answers because someone was offended?
... Or found the answers to be too explicit? Doesn't that destroy the learning part from reading answers, to be honest we have to be explicit and this is a platform for adults, right? I won't bother staying here, just...
fishcake_buttie
Xper 2 Age: 41 A man I used to be only casually involved with asked to spend time together and is showing a lot of changes in his behavior. How should I proceed?
I (24F) dated this guy (35M) a year ago when I was applying to med school. We date for two months and he asked if I’d stay in our city even if it meant changing my career path. When I hesitated, he said I might resent him...
Anonymous
(25-29) If you have an anxious attachment, how do you regulate your emotions when your partner doesn’t communicate for multiple hours during the day?
I seem to struggle with this whenever I get into a relationship. When I’m single, I’m fine… but when I start to get attached to someone, I do feel a little anxious if I don’t hear from him for 8-10 hours even if he told...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I being emotionally mistreated?
One time when I got sick, my boyfriend decided to take me to the hospital and the doctor told me to rest. Despite that, I wanted to work the next day at home because I had a really important deadline, but my dad told me...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does he like me?
Question: I met a guy named Tohit on a train trip, and I’m trying to figure out if he likes me back. There were several moments and behaviors that made me think he might: WhatsApp unblocking: He unblocked me after a fun...
Anonymous
(Under 18) I haven’t heard from my partner these past few days. Should I reach out to his family?
We’ve been together for a year, and our relationship has been good. He’s the type to always communicate well. We spend the weekend together almost every weekend unless I’m working on call. These 2 weeks, I’ve noticed that...
Anonymous
(30-35) My boyfriend has not been messaging me this week?
We’ve been together for a year, and our relationship has been good. We fight from time to time like any couple but he’s the type to always communicate well — better than me actually. We spend the weekend together almost...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, Would you have married my father?
He hasn't worked since 2005. My mom supported them both and worked herself to a heart Attack. He hates my mom to death and mutters under his breath that he hates her all the time. His is very controlling and violent...
Anonymous
(36-45) What is something you did to yourself that still hurts?
I found a song that really resonated with me, so I wrote my own lyrics about my breakup using the songs words/melody. Some parts said "reading about it turning the pages and pages allowing myself to fade in the story...
Anonymous
(25-29) Haven’t heard from my boyfriend in days?
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 1+ years. The past 2-3 weeks, I’ve noticed that he’s been more quiet. We haven’t had our goodnight calls, and he didn’t come by last weekend because he said he had family...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do you guys think I’m boring?
Years ago around I was dealing with a guy and we had to argument. He admitted to me that he only sees me when he’s bored and has nothing else to do and whenever we get into arguments he only text me to see if I’m still...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you think I am overthinking? Or he just being friendly?
I live in aboard since i was young, and the last time i went back home country, i was staying in the luxury hotel near the airport because my flight was in the early morning. So I didn’t have something to do , and i was...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think some people are just born to be sluts , or is it because of how they were treated?
And yes Guys’ and Girls’ both can be sluts , , do you think they were born that way or they became that way because of what they experienced in life? Most of our choices and decisions in life stem down to our childhood ,...
Patriarchy. Is it though?
Throughout modern history, society has been demonised as being PATRIARCHAL as in the power lies in the hands of men and it's men who have privileges. Is it though? Men may have been making the decisions but no one...
Shiprex
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