We’ve been together for a year, and our relationship has been good. He’s the type to always communicate well. We spend the weekend together almost every weekend unless I’m working on call. These 2 weeks, I’ve noticed that he’s quiet, like we don’t do goodnight calls, and he didn’t come over last weekend cause he said he’s dealing with family issues. His parents have been arguing and over the weekend his mom was admitted into hospital for a panic attack and his grandma was admitted with fall.
I reassurances him and sent messages letting him know that I’m there for him. I tried calling him, but it goes to voicemail after a few rings. I sent many messages and tried calling several times, and nothing. The last message he sent was on Sunday, saying he had just gotten back from the hospital after being there all day and was exhausted. He said his grandma was stable, but that his mom was up and down. He mentioned he wasn’t sure when he’d be back home, that he kept asking his dad, but his dad wanted to stay since they had all come in his car. He ended the message saying he hoped I was okay. I texted him back, being there for him but it’s now been three days and he hasn’t answered any of my texts or calls. I’ve called so many times yesterday, and every call has gone straight to voicemail. I’ve sent texts and a voice message. I called his work yesterday, and they said he was in a meeting and to call back in 30mins. When I called again, a different lady answered and told me there’s no direct line so I have to email. I have no idea what to do. Today I haven’t called or messaged, but should I call his work again? Should I reach out to a family member to make sure everything is fine? I thought about the fact that he’s cheating but I think we were doing really well that nothing to lead me to believe that at this time. Thank for reading all this and please be kind.
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Pretty sure you’ve posted this before, saying you called him like 50+ times and all that. Please stop. Find some way to distract yourself and also use this time to think about what you’d like to say when he does get around to calling.
Worries and concerns aside — this behavior of his is plain old not ok. You should have to chase him down or bombard him with calls and texts. He should want to keep you updated. He knows your worried, he knows you’re trying to reach him in every possible way you can and he’s flat out ignoring you. That doesn’t bother you at all?
**shouldn't
He might be dead. So yeah
Something's missing here