I haven't heard from my partner in three days and I am very concerned. Should I try and go over there and check up on them?

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So, I'm very concerned and haven't stopped thinking about them and the worst possibilities that could have probably happened. No matter how many distractions I have, I just can't stop thinking about it.

I want to go over there but I'm scared because their roommate is an ex and I never met the ex before and I don't want any drama or awkwardness. I just want to go with the intent of getting an answer.

The thing is, it's happened before where they had went MIA because of something that happened.

I just want answers and I'm dreading it. Should I try and go over there?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This time you guys didn't argue?

It's possible their phone broke. Does the ex know you or what you look like? If not better yet. I'd go with a surgical mask on and in baggy clothes so they can't suspect anything. Knock- and say "I need to speak with (person name)... you will know if they are home if someonw else answers- asks you for your name and leaves to go carry the message. better to give a code name or different nickname your partner knows you by because if the ex knows your name they may deliberately say they aren't home.

Even crazier idea is to go dressed in a formal outfit and walk with a check board and men saying you need to speak with Mr. Or Mrs 😂

KittyKat90210 · Accepted Answer

Did you have a fight or is there any other reason for your partner to not answer you? If not, I'd go over. I know the ex is there but your concern for your partner should outweigh that

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

Yea, it sounds like you probably should.

But only because of how concerned you obviously are. It depends on how 'concerning' it is that it's been 3 days. If, for example, you two have literally spoken every-single-day for 2 years... then sure...3 days without anything is concerning. But if it's not that "weird" compared to the past, then it's less concerning.

3 days is usually not something to be as concerned about as you are. But it depends on how "extraordinary" it is.

You better go though, because you're going to drive yourself crazy until you get an answer.

Good luck.

Phoenix98 · Accepted Answer

Just give em a call and if they don’t answer leave that you haven’t heard from them in a while and that your worried about em so your gonna stop by and check up on em. And do it.

but if your really worried about the ex get one of his friends to go over and check in him

Guy13 · Answer

Announce your coming...

LazerBean · Answer

Call 911 for a wellness check. Then leave them. That's a lot of nonsensical drama that's just going to end up as wasted time.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Yea just go to say you're checking up and then go home

Anonymous · Answer

girl... i wouldn't let 24/7 slip past without hearing from my partner... if you're close to where they live, you should have already gone over there!

RockyHammock · Answer

Call them first and give them time to return your call if they missed it

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Go over and check on them.

driven159 · Answer

you have to so you know whats going on good or bad

spartan55 · Answer

Them? How many partners do you have?

Anonymous · Answer

Gross sis. Call 911 and say it's a courtesy check.

sadgirl0210 · Answer

Yes go over there and check up on him

Dav1dTh0ma389 · Answer

No, not really

In_Trance · Answer

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