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Current situation rent is great and I've been living at this place since 2017. I haven't had any personal issues really up until now. Neighbor below me is overweight, loud , and obnoxious. Constantly hear her through the walls beating up her boyfriend and envious of me saying I'm a man snatched trying to take her man. Mind you he's unhealthy and unattractive too. So she's been keeping drama. The type of people they're moving in is a bit concerning, they are at pool after hours loud, you could smell weed, will leave food on the ground, speed in a 15mph, dog off leash. It's like they have no home training. Things have been fixed though so I hope it last.

I'd like to be around people who have as much to lose as I do. More professional people like myself. So I plan on moving. If your rent is an excellent price would you move to a more upscale professional areas where rent is $300 more or stay where you are? I'm at a place in my life where I want to be around better people.

I met this guy 3 weeks ago at a concert. I went by myself. His friends approached me and we ended up hanging out for the night. He flirted but never made a move. His one friend was drunk and got my number before I left for the night. Next day, his friend asked me out, I politely declined, explaining I had chickened out from asking the guy I was interested in for his number. The friend said the guy heard me telling another guy I had a boyfriend (I don’t, I do this when I’m out alone to easily reject guys). The friend also sent me the guys number and said he thought I should text him. I did. We texted everyday for a week and he called me 3 or 4 times to chat. First time he called he said he was not a good texter and preferred calling (if I was good with that). Throughout the week we got to know each other a bit. He made sure I knew he lives a few hours away (he is moving soon tho), and that he is 9 years older than me. The last call we had was ~ half an hour and went really well. He teased me and called me nicknames, said his friends thought I was really cool, and mentioned different things we could do together. He told me he was going on a trip that weekend and at a music festival the following weekend so he would be super busy. He told me he was just a call away before we hung up.
I texted him the next morning responding to something he sent the night before. I asked a question about something we discussed on the call and he never responded to the text. A week after our last call, I had not heard from him so I texted again. I said I might be able to make time if he wanted call me again sometime that week. I figured I was likely getting ghosted, so I mentioned if he wasn’t feeling it that I understood and it would be no hard feelings. He texted back a couple days later adamantly saying he definitely wanted to keep talking. He never called though, and that was about 5 days ago now. Should I consider myself ghosted? If not, is it likely he’s just not very interested?