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I meet a guy a few years ago. We were neighbors. He started washing my car every week. I tried to pay him and he wouldn't take the money. I then found out he was living with his girlfriend at the time. Then they moved out. Then I hear from him a few months later telling me he has crush and wants to take me out and that him and the girl he was dating broke up. But then he kept making excuses when it came time to hang out. Then when questioned I found out that he decided to go back to the same girl he was living with. Now in 2023 we happened to run into each other and reconnect and he still saying he still wants to hang out and that he knows he made a mistake before and that he and the girl ended up broking up shortly after that. However it's been almost a month since we've been in communication and he is still making plans only to cancel or take a raincheck. He asked me to be his valentines and then said oh well I have to bring you the gift I got you early cause I'm working on Valentines day. But on valentines day morning told me he would be able to come see me. Then at the last minute says he cannot get off work and has to stay late and can we go on a date this coming weekend. He is consistently making plans and then canceling or asking for a raincheck. We have yet to actually go on a date. Am I just being paranoid in thinking maybe he is still involved with someone. Am I just wasting my time thinking this guy is going to ever step up? Or does he just want to hook up and potentially ghost me afterwards?

Hi everyone. So I am three months into my new job, and I am a bit of a "floater" meaning that I float between two apartments (Accounting and Estimating)

I am not from an accounting background so of course I made a few mistakes which were quite annoying, but I am not from an accounting background, but I do work hard which people see and I take initiative.

I had a three-month review with my director and he said that he likes having me here and there I am doing well.

Well today, I saw an email which I wasn't supposed to see and my director asked for a meeting with an admin person and my accountant superior and in the email, it had a few dot points for discussion and the last bit of the email read the following:

"I would like to discuss (my name) and her helping out with accounts. Is it working? Is it not working? Is it something that (my colleague) can pick up because she is looking for more work? If it isn't working I will look for an alternative solution"

Last Thursday, he did mention that he is going to look at making me focus more on estimating rather than accounts in a few months.

I felt that the email sounded ominous. Am I paranoid?