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I’m turning 25 in few months & been having baby fever. I get jelaous seeing girls with baby happy. I can’t stop thinking of babies. I’m not ready this year have baby but maybe mid to end next year be pregnant and have baby born by age 26 . I’m 26 end next year. I’m not financially stable rn, my business has no sales at moment, I’m barley trying get savings, have $200 saved rn and want $5,000 saved by December. Then next year save even more so I can use it for my baby buy everything he or she will need. I’ve been feeling depressed empty in life I live alone, I’ve been feeling like a loser as I have no special baby of my own. I see women pregnant or with guy and baby and I wonder what makes them deserve a baby? What makes them deserve get pregnant by a guy and I don’t deserve get Pregnant by a guy? Like how is the women so special n amazing to be able get huge belly n have so much sex so many times with boyfriend to get baby. Why im not worthy have this too? Im not a party girl, I want move to a big condo apartment , and raise my baby there in our blissful home. I feel my purpose is have baby not just be stupid women living alone empty working that’s it. My life is to have my own family 😔& true happiness with my own new family.

Saw this in a [pretty stupid] conversation between two male friends. They're in their 30s but act like they're in their 20s. One was about to text the girl he has been seeing, ask her out again. His friend stopped him to give him advice on what to say, not say. It inspired this question.

The scenario is between a guy and a girl (but you can do same sex couple if you want. But this is about gender roles and preferences.) They are not strangers. They know each other, but not that well. They have just started casually dating. They both like each other.

But... the guy is reluctant [will not] commit. He's anticipating her wanting this. He's trying to play it cool. But he wants to keep dating her, having sex with her, have her in his life. "She's cool, and she's chill, and she's level-headed. But I don't want to fast-track anything." So his friend says to him, "Just tell her, 'Look, maybe I'll get there one day, but I don't want to hold you back from living your life.'" Typical commitmentphobe player b. s. But anyway, thought I'd make a question out of it.

What I'm getting at here is if there's a majority preference toward: politeness, or assertiveness, or something else. And do guys and girls have a different, or the same, idea about this. And, girls, does the assertiveness turn you on/do you like it, or does it turn you off?

It'd be for some snacks/appetizers as well, not just drinks, but for simplicity sake I didn't write that in each multiple choice because it would be too many words. This isn't a formal or fancy dinner date, but there will be food, so don't focus on that. And for those who don't drink alcohol, you can sub in any other beverage. It's not important. But it is a date, and there is sexual tension between them.