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Like seriously, number one rule on a first date... DO NOT, talk about your past relationships. You are not there to rehash your past, it about trying to make a connection with the other person and building a possible future.

Like seriously, this woman would not get off your past relationship, every time I tried to make conversation go a different way it came back to her and previous heartbreaks.

She starts straight up crying, she is like I am so sorry, it not you, it's me. She excuses herself to go to the bathroom. She comes back and she is like,

"I am so sorry it is not you. Actually, you are being so nice and sweet, and you are very good looking, it's just that..."

"I interrupt her, it's that you are not ready to be dating yet period, right?"

she's says, "I am so sorry, but yes. I just had no idea, until right now."

I said, "Yeah, I get it. You're like the fourth woman I met online, that comes online and thinks they are not going to meet a real person and when they do, they freak out because they are not ready yet."

She says, " Yeah, you are right, but it's not you. I am so sorry; you are so nice and handsome..."

Again, I just say, "just stop, you do not think I do not know I am a nice person? You do not think I know that I am a nice-looking man? Like I have heard that shit my whole life, and I do not need to hear it from you. Obviously, it's not enough for you, so basically after weeks of talking and you assured me you were ready, you basically wasted my time today."

I walked her to the car and wished her well in life.

How many of you have had something like this happen to you?

There’s this guy that I randomly met at a drag show. I started being friendly cause he was there alone. We exchanged instagrams and he told me he needed friends to go to shows with cause his friends weren’t into it.

I was like sure, whatever. We went to one show with another one of my friends and it was fine.
Then we went to another show with just me and him and honestly…I’m gagged lol

We went through a drive through and he was super rude to the worker for no reason. He was rude to people sitting next to us at the show. He was being super judgmental. This is the second time we’ve gone out and I’ve seen enough of his character…he’s such a bitch and I’m good lol. He admitted it too, he was like “yeah I’m such a bitch if you can’t tell 🤪” like no baby I can tell, and it’s not cute.

this is why I need to stop being so friendly with literal strangers, that’s on me.

So anyways. There’s another show coming up and he was saying “oh we need to go”
And I know my actual friends were talking about going. I don’t want to invite him lol.
Should I be honest and tell him straight up that I’m not a fan of his rude behavior…
Or should I just like ghost/come up with an excuse

cause I know he’s gonna hit me up about going together.