Should I be honest with this guy on why I don’t wanna hang out with him anymore? Or just ghost?

[JustinTheGreat]

There’s this guy that I randomly met at a drag show. I started being friendly cause he was there alone. We exchanged instagrams and he told me he needed friends to go to shows with cause his friends weren’t into it.

I was like sure, whatever. We went to one show with another one of my friends and it was fine.
Then we went to another show with just me and him and honestly…I’m gagged lol

We went through a drive through and he was super rude to the worker for no reason. He was rude to people sitting next to us at the show. He was being super judgmental. This is the second time we’ve gone out and I’ve seen enough of his character…he’s such a bitch and I’m good lol. He admitted it too, he was like “yeah I’m such a bitch if you can’t tell 🤪” like no baby I can tell, and it’s not cute.

this is why I need to stop being so friendly with literal strangers, that’s on me.

So anyways. There’s another show coming up and he was saying “oh we need to go”
And I know my actual friends were talking about going. I don’t want to invite him lol.
Should I be honest and tell him straight up that I’m not a fan of his rude behavior…
Or should I just like ghost/come up with an excuse

cause I know he’s gonna hit me up about going together.

Just be honest and tell him that he’s not a nice person…he needs to be humbled

Come up with an excuse (but I know I’m still going so what if he goes and we run into each other? It’s a big venue tho)

Ghost him. Who cares, you barely know each other lol

Just suck it up and go with him…it’s one show

[petitedollbabee]

Just be honest and tell him how it is. Don’t make up excuses like saying that you’re not going to go. Because then if you do go with your friends, chances are that you’ll see him there and that’ll bring up even more drama. Or if you ghost him then he’ll probably confront you about it at a show.

[BeetleBro2000]

Doesn't really matter how you handle it. If he's as you say, he'll take it negatively no matter how nicely or neatly you try to end things. So, just do whatever you're most comfortable with. Don't worry about his side of it.

[surprisedjo]

You don't owe him anything, do you really want to go a place and have your mood ruined? It's your life, you should be able to attend shows without being bothered by someone else's attitude.