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I have a huge crush on a guy at work, and he has given me signs that the crush is mutual (holding strong eye contact, acting flustered during compliments, always smiling when talking to me, teasing me etc)

For morning and afternoon break, I sit at a table situated in front of the entrance to the reception/canteen. Next to where I sit, there is a small corridor with a water dispenser. Yesterday and today for afternoon break, I saw him walk in front of the entrance with his colleagues to go to the benches to sit outside. Both times, he came through the entrance and started talking to me. I could see that his water bottle was significantly full (about two thirds/three quarters) but he still went to the water dispenser to fill it up.

Could he have been using his water bottle as an excuse to come and approach me?

He would compliment me in ways like saying I’m so hot. I’m banging and “big fat ass”. He’d never really compliment me in any other way and not often at all. He’d say i was pretty occasionally too

But with his other girlfriend would say she had perfect boobs. And bigged them up so much. I have no idea how often or if he said other compliments but he was able to say that off his own back. But with me he couldn’t.

I’ve read that narcissists will compliment people less the more attractive they are. His friends told me this girl wasn’t anywhere near as good looking as I am and my narcissistic ex himself said it too. Is that why?

He always said bitterly I know I’m good looking. I know I have a big bum. I know I’m good etc.

What is the reason he couldn’t compliment me but he could this girl?

Hi Guys & Gals,

TGIF!

So it’s Casual Friday and I’m sporting my oldest pair of jeans and my favorite heels. Nothing special, tbh, but a young, nice-looking fella stops his bike, takes out his AirPods and calls over, “Hey, those are GREAT jeans.”

It was a funny sort of thing to say to a stranger, but I just offered a little smile, said “Aww, thank you,” and kept walking, not thinking too much of it…

And that’s when I heard it… that extra base a guy gets in his voice when his eyes are still on you. “You’re… welcome.” And for several seconds I felt as if a laser pointer was directed at my backside. Goodness….

As I walked the rest of the way back to the office I wondered if I ever gave someone an indirect compliment to avoid saying what I wanted. Yeah, perhaps once or twice, but y’all know me… I usually go for the jugular with my compliments and critiques.

What about you?