Why do men not treat me well or lose interest quickly?

[Anonymous]

I would say I get a lot of attention or compliments from men, they often tell me I‘m very pretty and things like that. However, the guys I have crushes on often just want something casual or don‘t put in much effort.. is this a reflection of me? Does this maybe mean I am not pretty enough or does it have nothing to do with my looks? It‘s making me insecure about if I am really pretty or not. Thank you 🤍

[Anonymous]

Thank a democrat for de-masculating men.


If you aren’t fingering his ass (like a vagina) he may cry.


Good luck with any guy under 50.

[Cyrus000]

I can't tell you unless I know what you look like/what you are like. It can be a bunch of reasons.

[moneymagnet24]

For that I have to see how you look...

[Asker]

i can show you but I don't know how cause i don‘t wanna post myself on this website

[moneymagnet24]

Follow me

[Ariesman81]

Come on man... she probably mid af

[Asker]

@Ariesman81 you’re an adult so stop being mean on the internet lol, maybe i am but don‘t say stuff like that to people

[Ariesman81]

@asker like what? That you look better with my eyes closed.

[Asker]

@Ariesman81 what‘s your problem?

[jahaims]

It means you still have an immature taste

[Asker]

why?

[Fury_storm]

you're not hot enough

[Asker]

that‘s sad

[Fury_storm]

yeah life's not really fair is it

[Asker]

but then why do i still get a lot of attention

[Fury_storm]

it could also be that you are pretty but something else about is not good

[Asker]

but the guys who do that are very good looking so maybe it‘s just because they also like other beautiful girls too?

[Fury_storm]

no it doesn't necessarily mean you are beautiful

[Asker]

umm ok i‘m kinda wondering why you are mean

[Fury_storm]

it's called being honest

[Asker]

then why are they complimenting me and hitting on me if they don‘t find me pretty? i‘m just trying to understand

[Fury_storm]

you probably are pretty but guys often hit on literally everything with a vagina even if she's ugly

[Fury_storm]

and the fact that they don't put in effort points to teh fact that you aren't that pretty

[Asker]

i get that , it‘s just that i get hit on more than my friends, they are the ones telling me i get hit on a lot and i get compliments from random girls so I don't know i‘m just confused

[Fury_storm]

then maybe you're just picking the wrong guys. hot guys with tons of options don't put in effort

[Asker]

yeaa makes sense. anyways, thank u for helping me !

[Fury_storm]

np. good luck