Search Results: moving in together

Why would he suddenly distance himself and get back on bumble after going on dates 2-3 times a week for 2 1/2 months?

It just really hurts my feelings because we bother decided to give this another try. We went on two days and long distance was too much but he ended up moving closer and we were within 20 minutes away. We went on 20+...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Do you think it’s messed up for someone to be on dating apps less than 3 weeks after their fiancé died?

I know someone whose fiancé recently died. They were literally getting married this summer. I think they were together for 6 years, if not more. She had 2 kids with him and he also raised her daughter from a previous...

JustinTheGreat

Editor Age: 28

I know someone whose fiancé recently died. They were literally getting married this summer. I think they were together for 6 years, if not more. She had 2 kids with him and he also

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Break Up & Divorce

How to know if he is being genuine when he says he is working on himself? If he is, will he come back?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My relationship lasted 4.5 years, and it ended 2 weeks ago. We are doing the no-contact rule, so I can't discuss anything with him now. But, he decided to end it because he "felt like

My relationship lasted 4.5 years, and it ended 2 weeks ago. We are doing the no-contact rule, so I can't discuss anything with him now. But, he decided to end it because he "felt like the bad guy," communication/compatibility issues, and my close-minded family (even though that was a minor issue out of everything). He said that he wanted to work on himself to understand his emotions/feelings better, make himself a better person, needed time/space, and he couldn't do it while we were together still. He also said he couldn't guarantee that he would return right now since he is unsure what he wants and has started therapy to figure that out. He discussed moving to another state since most of his family lives there, but he hadn't told me when he planned to leave. He even broke up with me over the phone and not in person. I asked to see him at least one more time in person to discuss it at least (we live 3 hours away from each other), and he said no.

I'm unsure how to feel about all of this besides a massive unfairness since I deserve the "best" version of him when he is done with therapy, and I didn't want to end it. I have researched his likelihood of returning online, and it seemed up in the air. The breakup wasn't the worst, and I know he still loves/cares about me to a certain degree since we did last this long. I feel like I am not getting all of the information about how he feels since he mentioned how he was "done/tired" of the relationship, but his plan after a month of no contact was to be "friends" (which could easily change now) initially with the breakup. What do you think? Do you think there's a chance of him returning after therapy? I know not to bank on it, but I wanted to see if other people were in a similar situation and what happened. His mom still supports me and is helping me process this the best she can. It feels weird because it felt rushed, and he seems indifferent about it all now. Like he even bought an engagement ring for me and everything.

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Guy's Behavior

My crush sent me a song so intimate to our situation like confessing his love for me…and, then?

After he sent it, we hung out, and everything was fine. I told him that was a great song and I loved it. A week later, I sent a similar song just as intimate to our very situation, but said in a different way then the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Am I really that attractive?

Before moving to a new town a year abd half ago to be with my boyfriend I was never considered that attractive. I got a few boys chasing after me but they were alway fuck boyz or freaks. Any guy I actually liked before my...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

My man is acting weird and distant I decided to show him less love for fear that he is taking avantage he became worried and cligny?

Some of his béhaviors are off and i can't get over them he sais he loves me to death but i asked him about it and i get jo résults. He says he's loyal and fathful but he always looks at other women when we are in public...

Mishab

Xper 2 Age: 38

Guy's Behavior

Former coworker holding shoes hostage for a date? How should I approach and tell him for the tenth time I’m not interested?

I recently had to pack my desk because my job didn’t honor my FMLA. I had an extra pair of shoes but they weren’t at my desk so I thought I took them home before requesting leave and packed them away. I went to check my...

Luv2BRealExotic13

Guru Age: 32

Relationships

Should I stay friends with my ex?

We just broke up last week. It was mutual, but I had brought up breaking up first awhile ago. Honestly, I was running away from my own feelings because he’s the first person I loved. I never told him this though. The day...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

My best guy friend is suddenly being super distant after I suggested we maybe try dating, how can I fix this?

We get on great, see each other or talk almost every day, regularly are referred to as each other's SO by people who see us together all the time. Three different people that day made "your old lady" or "your old man"...

SomeoneUUsedtoKnow

Xper 2 Age: 32

Relationships

Is it normal for your boyfriend to follow his exes or women that he's dealt with in the past on socals even tho we are in love?

Me ans my boyfriend are in a serious relationship and are moving on together he introduiced me to his whole family amd his 7 year old daughter and i have a tight bond , his daughters mother everybody and i are close , he...

Mishab

Xper 2 Age: 38

Relationships

I don’t seem to love my partner anymore, but he does everything right?

It’s a weird question. But my ex-partner and I are very different. Also he comes from a more cultural background whereas I was raised in the states so our viewpoints and political views are different. He’s not my ideal...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

I'm moving in with my man. His best friend went through a breakup and wants to move in too. Am I selfish for not wanting a third person in the mix?

The friend says it'll be temporary but I know it won't bc it's not out of necessity but due to him not wanting to be alone. I don't feel it's a wise decision to allow a third party into our living space. This is a big...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Have you ever moved in with a partner within 0-3 month mark? Why did or didn't it workout?

(You've only known each other and or dating for 0-3 months before moving in together)

Anonymous

(30-35)

(You've only known each other and or dating for 0-3 months before moving in together)

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Family & Friends

Can moving out actually save a relationship?

I have been with my man for 6.5 years. We live together with our two kids and have been for 3 years. But in the last year our kid's and our lifestyles have changed and gone in different directions. My kid is very involved...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Just wondering what people's thoughts are?

At what stage into a relationship would you consider moving in? And how do men who have their own homes manage that situation if their partner is younger and doesn't have their own house? Does it affect you wanting...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

What are some signs that you're ready to take your relationship to the next level, such as moving in together or getting married?

silver

Xper 5 Age: 47

Relationships

When a couple decides to move in together, which is best: moving into the other lover's home or finding a place that both of them want?

straightmax12

Xper 6 Age: 24

Relationships

Just looking for advice? What would you do?

I live with my brother who's 2 years older then me. We split rent. He's never home, mostly stays at his gfs house but his girlfriend has serious alcohol and drug issues. She has 2 kids and she went on a 3 day binge. She...

kerrylouise

Xper 5 Age: 33

Relationships

What type of things should you discuss and ask your partner before moving in together?

sheikalana

Master Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

Should I bother talking to him still?

I have this long-distance situationship with a guy I've been kind of involved with, on and off, for 11 years. I'm moving back home in a few days, and we've been talking for a few months now but every now and then he'll...

Anonymous

(25-29)