Why would he suddenly distance himself and get back on bumble after going on dates 2-3 times a week for 2 1/2 months?

[Anonymous]

It just really hurts my feelings because we bother decided to give this another try. We went on two days and long distance was too much but he ended up moving closer and we were within 20 minutes away. We went on 20+ dates. I met his friends his mom, he met my friends and mom too. We did double dates, went on a day trip, and a weekend get away. We did the things he liked and the things I liked… so I don't know what gives? Not to mention he updated his dating profile and has put less and less effort even though a week ago he was asking for my help. I went out of my way to help him and we had went on a date and spent the entire day together too. I am just so confused…. Because considering everything I feel like I’ve been good to him. And I definitely feel used and taken for granted

[mommymommymommy]

Dating apps don't work. They're scams, and most you have to pay for. Why should I pay to have someone talk to me?

[boggboss]

So why not ask him why?

[Asker]

You know how sometimes you think you know the answer and you’re afraid that answer will be reality. Feel like that’s where I’m at but it’s also a confusing place, because…. This only started right after we got into an argument which we did talk through everything. Part of me feels like I’m being punished

[boggboss]

But if u truly want a answer he is who u need to speak to its pointless speculating towards it as we on gag could always be wrong

[Anonymous]

Only he knows that answer, so do not be afraid to ask him.