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So i'm currently bring courted by 2 guys and i'm haing a hard time choosing. So guy 1 he's sweet and nice and he really smellls nice not that thats important and he goes above and beyond to do stuff for me sounds perfect right but there is a minor flaw when we're kissing and making out in his car and clothes starts coming off, i stop him when he goes to my jeans but then he says he wants me to be more comfortable and he won't try t put it in but he does anyways after saying that. He pampers me and says he loves me and all that but thats the only issue i have with him. Guy 2 is a bit different yeah i feel like i can be a couch potato around him and not care how i look (idc with guy one either). But he's really big on consent and he asks before he does stuff he doesn't just do it guessing that i might be okay with it and he's also really sweet and we can talk for hours on end and it isn't just a one sided conversation we both each other time to talk and it just just feels comfortable being together and he's also not big on pda just like i am, guy number 1 i don't think he even wants us to be seen together with anyone he knows and most of his friends are married or he's ashamed or something guy 2 doesn't mind holding my hand at all in public or whatever. Our dates take place in open places, Guy 2 doesn't even want to bring me outside at all or he rents rooms for us to hang out or we hang out in his car or stuff i think he feels like he's doing it for my sake when he's not. And he doesn't give up the chance to show how much money he has and always offers to buy me stuff even after i've told him how uncomfortable it makes me. Second guy asks if i say no thats the end of the discussion. its not that i like guy 2 more i just feel like he gets me more. respects my decision more even.

I’m 25 and I hate going to family events mainly because we have nothing in common and they’re all fake anyway.

I love spending time alone or with friends.

It’s my nieces birthday soon and they’re throwing a party which I refuse to go to. This annoys my parents and they have a go at me saying I shouldn’t act like this towards family and should just show up.

Nobody cares when it’s my birthday anyway. My sibling didn’t even get me a card.

So to answer my question is it wrong for them and should I go?