Search Results: getting guys attention

Why would he try and mess with me, while I told him I moved on?

I'm here, left with a question that can't be answered. Though I'm curious to know what could have been the mindset here. There was this guy I really liked, and I remember he fooled me by him telling me he liked me. Time...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do women (generally) always make up excuses when they are caught or confess to cheating?

I am not saying women cheat more. There is no way to know for sure. But from my life observations there are two kinds of male cheaters: 1) Complete sociopathic scumbags. These guys don’t make up excuses or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Confessions of a Ladies Man Is Back! Advice for Ladies on Dating Apps. Red Flags to UnMatch

It is a crazy dating world out there isn't it? It is even worse if you are a gal that does not live in the big city. You options there are limited. But how do you know if a guy is worth your time? How do you know whether...

Apope16

Influencer Age: 39

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Reasons why he may be giving you false hope

I've been a stripper, sex/love therapist, and escort so through the years I’ve gotten to know many men and exactly how they work, because they TAUGHT me how they work. With this knowledge, I decided to start helping out...

princesslibertarian

Xper 4 Age: 29

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Is she playing games for attention?

Have this woman who I use to work with where we got stationed to different locations. I’m in San Diego she now stays in Maryland. Before I suggested we go out on a date and see what happens. Got shot down being told she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is my boyfriend an asshole, and should I leave him? Would love opinions on him as a person based on this?

I was at bass pro shop with my boyfriend getting some fishing gear. we were at the counter starting ringing us up, and the cashier asked if we wanted to get a warranty on the reels. My boyfriend said yes, and I asked "do...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why can't I let this person go?

There is this girl I used to eye ball at the gym all the time purposely (flirtatiously). I did it for the longest time because i started to really like her. I had a feeling she was already taken but wasn't sure. This went...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to stop falling for every semi cute guy who talks to me (even worse if they’re nice)?

I’m fairly pretty but I don’t get a lot of male attention and have never been in a relationship so guy stuff is kinda like really stupid to me. This is gonna sound super dumb but literally time a mildly attractive guy (or...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

From a gals perspective, why would you be very rude to a specific guy?

I've got a terrible reputation of getting the attention of the most shallow females out of spite a lot of them are drawn to me & for the most negative reasonsI don't flirt nor try to talk to them in the very least...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you ever felt stuck in life like nothing would change but it needed to or should?

Because i feel like this. I am stuck in a dead end job and i am just now having that sink in. I mean technically we all know retail is a dead end job. But i think i used to think that maybe i could get promoted one way or...

Anonymous

(25-29)

"Attention is coin-of-the-realm in girl world." Do you agree or disagree?

Most girls you know want attention. It's easier than it's ever been to get tons of attention online. All the attention leads to inflated egos, women end up thinking they can lock down a high value man when really she's...

SixFootSexy

Yoda Age: 38

Is being a physically attractive guy actually that helpful in dating, my personal experience says no but I’m curious why u guys think?

Yes physically attractive men can potentially get a lot more female attention and flirt with a lot more women. But actually having sex with these women? It hasn’t been that helpful in my experience. Every girl just plays...

Intothevoid666

Xper 5 Age: 30

This is general female dating/mating strategy

Usually a large woman at her physical best will give her best years to the top 20% of males and try to secure a relationship with them. Women will often offer up sex very fast for these men and readily make an effort to...

Lookingforthetruth

Explorer Age: 36

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Why does my inconsistent guy friend want to meet my parents? please decode his behaviour?

We met 7 years ago but only got back in touch last summer at our mutual friend's birthday, where we had a bit too much to drink and made out, and where he said he's very attracted to me. We also had no small talk as such,...

salonity12345

Xper 1 Age: 38

I (16F) am scared to break up with my boyfriend that treats me like shit and I need advice?

I (16F) and my boyfriend (16M) have been together for almost a year and I’m having a few troubles. For the first bit, he was fine and nice to me but he’s slowly started to change and it’s getting too much. I’ll list...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What are some advantages/benefits of men when it comes to girls?

I'm asking this because I've had bad experiences with guys, and guys have disappointed most girls, so I've just lost a lot of hope in them as they don't seem to be very helpful for girls. It's almost illogical that us...

nocturnalbaby

Xper 5 Age: 28

Do you think Hypergamy makes women want only tall, white and rich men?

Don't you think these days short, bald, non-white and average earning men are considered undesirable by women? I have seen in multiple surveys that height is the most important trait in a man which can't be...

Anonymous

(18-24)