Do you think Hypergamy makes women want only tall, white and rich men?

[Anonymous]

Don't you think these days short, bald, non-white and average earning men are considered undesirable by women?

I have seen in multiple surveys that height is the most important trait in a man which can't be overlooked followed by hair, money and ethnicity.

How come a guy get in serious relationship if top 20% men are getting attention of 80% women?

And obviously I have seen these traits are make or break type of thing. Like if you're short, it's OVER. And I have seen a lot of people ignoring it because they don't want others to call them shallow.

And these are statistics and not made up. So I'm not whining or something. I'm just presenting some facts. Just like if blacks didn't fight for their civil rights they could have not gotten it by now.

So please be good with your answers.

I just wanna know how to maximize our results in dating in this situation?

[boggboss]

Good thing not all people think 1 way there are plenty of women that don't think this way I will not claim the fact are a lie but there are plenty of guys that don't for into the desirable bracket that get partners ao no I don't think this is a massive issue

[Anonymous]

I have a question for you. I am not necessarily disagreeing with the concept of hypergamy, because I believe that it is a very real thing in many situations

What color are these "women" that you refer to? White?

Do women of every color equally desire a tall right white guy or are you obsessed with the white ones?

[Asker]

I have seen even non whites likes white ones

[SnakeBoop]

yawn.
soon as you spout the bullshit 80/20 incel crap, you lose any respect you could have had.
congratulations on troll of the day award.

[AvaOneLasTime]

If you seriously think I am with my boyfriend, because he is tall...
You are wrong. Because he is not tall.

[Asker]

How tall is he?

[AvaOneLasTime]

Average.

[Asker]

What if he was short? Would you still like him? Honest answer only

[AvaOneLasTime]

In parallel universe where he is short, i would be short too then. So we would probably still end up together.

[Asker]

No if you were the same height but he was short. Would you like him?

[AvaOneLasTime]

You are forcing a scenario, which is your taste, to prove your point.
But in reality, this isn't how it works.

[Asker]

Just give an answer, if that was a scenario. Yes or no. If you say no I understand you prefer someone taller than you. There's nothing wrong I just wanted to know the answer.

[AvaOneLasTime]

See, you are forcing the answer you want. But you can't force me to say something, which i would not say. I don't have to, in the first place.

Even so, i know a teen couple, where the boy is 5cm/2 inches shorter than the girl. And they are inlove.

[Asker]

I'm asking about you not the teen couple. You can't answer cos you know you would be called out shallow. Imagine a guy shorter than you approaches you, if you're single, would you like him?

[AvaOneLasTime]

Actually, the last part was a better scenario! I had such case. I had a boyfriend as tall as me. Whereas at the time, my girl friends, the ones who had boyfriends, the were with taller and older guys. So yea, if i have reasons to like him, i will?

[Asker]

Imagine if he like 170 CM tall and is a good guy. Would you consider him as good as a 180 CM tall guy.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Being 'good guy' is not enough, i don't care his height :D

[Asker]

Being what is enough then?

[AvaOneLasTime]

Having an actual personality. Your own and unique. Being confident and dominant (for me). Mature. Inspiring, pushing me forward in life. Taking care of me, giving advices, understanding. My boyfriend is many other things.

[Asker]

Doesn't height mean dominance to women?

[AvaOneLasTime]

What? No. There is no research pointing towards - taller men = more dominant.
I think social and life factors lead to that, not height.

[Asker]

Cuz I have heard a lot of women saying that.

[AvaOneLasTime]

I would like to have a word with them.

[Asker]

There's a lot of them. But it's good you don't believe that. at least there are some.

[AvaOneLasTime]

My boyfriend says: I have 2 guys friends, more cowardly than me. Both are taller than me.

[Asker]

Yeah but he knows them in person that's why. But when people are total strangers they would see tall person more dominant.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Most* cowardly.
Damned phone!

[Asker]

What did your boyfriend exactly do that you like him?

[AvaOneLasTime]

People don't automatically assume someone is braver, because he is taller. Body language and person reading are things too.

[Asker]

Yes, what did your boyfriend exactly do that you like him?

[AvaOneLasTime]

Oh its long story and is complicated. Also, he is 10 years older. Maybe i am into more mature guys. Guys my age - fresh out of high school, are complete morons!

[Asker]

I'm your same age, you're calling me moron as well. But anyways.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Says 18-24. Couldn't know. You could have been 24.

[Asker]

I'm 18, but still women mature early than most men even though I'm a guy. I'd have to say that.

[AvaOneLasTime]

I think i mentioned that in a Take of mine. Women do enter puberty earlier, but also develop for shorter time. The result? Me with 28 years old guy.

[Asker]

And me being with no one and sitting in my home. Lmao the difference

[AvaOneLasTime]

Try with younger girl?

[Asker]

That would be underage, I don't want someone who's less than 18. And especially where I live it would not be good for me.

[AvaOneLasTime]

18y. o. boy with... say 16 or 15yo. girls is fine, where i live. Where do you live?
But wherever is that, i don't know what to advise you in your case except... manipulate. (and i should go to Hell for saying that)

[Asker]

Yeah, I will see that but I live at a place where these things are a taboo.

Anyways, I just changed the whole topic, I got into a convo with you before and it got changed as well. Would you mind if I message you? You give great tips.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Message me then.

[Asker]

It says it's private and you have to follow me Or something.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Follow me? I don't know who you are.

[Anonymous]

Don't pay attention to surveys. The #1 factor in male attractiveness is strength, even among women who deny that they desire strong men. Even if they can only see their faces, women will reliably pick the strongest men as the most attractive, no matter their stated preferences

[Asker]

That's why I said tall = strong as most women say. Meaning short men are weak and undesired.

[Opinion Owner]

I've known some short guys who pull chicks like you wouldn't believe. One is 5'3", another is 5'5". Both great guys to hang out with, not the cocky one-up-everything-because-I'm-THE-ALPHA types. Respectable men. They also both stay in great shape. Being short doesn't phase them a bit. Sure, some women just will not date a short guy, but PLENTY will.

Funny story about the 5'3" guy. A chick tried to clown on him one night by saying, rather loudly, that she would consider dating him if he wasn't so short (complete with the "I'm being a bitch on purpose" giggle). He wiped his brow in relief and said "thank God. You just made this so much easier!" Failing to register what he was getting at, she said "made what easier?", to which he replied "well, women don't take rejection very well, and you just saved me the trouble". Cue perplexed look. AND THEN, the hottie sitting across the table from her leans forward, puts her hands over the other girls hands in a comforting manner, and says "don't worry honey, you'll figure it out".

And my bro ends up taking Ms Hottie home that night. I love that story. We still laugh about that shit

[Asker]

That looks like a movie.

[Opinion Owner]

It absolutely did.

[Asker]

Well I'm not that short I'm like 5'7

[Opinion Owner]

Man, 5'7" isn't a problem at all.

[zagor]

No, because eventually women have to deal with reality, and the words of Mick Jagger:

You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometime, you just might find, you get what you need.

[Anonymous]

Both men and women want the best mate they can get.

Hypergamy is more about class, social status and wealth, and is obviously more a female thing.

[LazyProphet]

I dont know who hypergamy is but I'm tall and white, just not rich 😬, and single 😉.

[Anonymous]

Women also sleep with thugs or losers/Bad boys and they don't have to be rich or have any money at all sometimes.

[Anonymous]

Yes essentially
but they will date a short fat man if he has money

[Anonymous]

Yep.