Why do women (generally) always make up excuses when they are caught or confess to cheating?

[Anonymous]

I am not saying women cheat more. There is no way to know for sure. But from my life observations there are two kinds of male cheaters:

1) Complete sociopathic scumbags. These guys don’t make up excuses or justification for their crap they just do it. They feel little remorse for their actions. They might get caught (they never confess) and get called every name in the book but they don’t care. They rarely feel regret.

2.) Otherwise decent guys who cave to temptation. When they get caught they are guilt-stricken and make zero excuses for what they did. They often confess out of guilt.

These guys are usually have one or two lifetime screw ups (unless they are sex addicts but those are more #1). They might be sexually frustrated with their wives/gfs. They might be losing physical attraction. However they almost never seek out other women. Usually some scandalous (yet attractive) home wrecker comes along and puts it right in front of him. The disgusting irony is she probably wouldn’t even hook up with him if he was single (she likes the drama). But still he makes no excuses for what he did.

However more often then not I notice that women usually make up excuses and want to be considered “justified” for their cheating bs.

Her boyfriend/husband might not be giving her attention or treating her poorly (no proof he’s cheating though). She gets “upset” with him and considers cheating getting even. These women do mental gymnastics to make themselves feel better. They want someone to tell them that her decision was “okay”. She has to protect her ego by demonizing her boyfriend/husbands. She doesn’t want people to label her a cheating whore but that is exactly what she is unless she OWNS up to being completely wrong. However she still clings to excuses to protect her ego and considers herself a “victim”.

If you’re a cheater there are two options: own up to your crap & make zero excuses for your bs OR just admit your scumbag & you don’t care. No 3rd door.

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Just a FYI I don’t think that guy #2 is any less culpable than guy #1. But at least guy #2 has a conscious and doesn’t make up bs excuses for what happened.

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Also if there are women out there who can be like guy #2. But more often than not I see women giving “sorry but not sorry” explanations i. e. “yes i cheated and it was wrong. But you did this and that”. So sick of seeing that crap.

[kylee2437]

The irony is you just made up excuses and justifications as to why men cheat (especially number 2 reason for men) meanwhile complaining about why women justify their cheating lol you are being emotionally hateful towards women

[Asker]

No don’t put words in my fucking mouth and twist this. Guy #2 doesn’t try self justify what he did. He knows his girlfriend or wife will likely leave him. He accepts the consequences. He doesn’t fixate on what she did wrong to make himself “feel better” (assuming she didn’t cheat).

[kylee2437]

@asker you need to calm down. The fact that you sprinkled “decent guy” in the mix of cheating pretty much says it all. A decent guy isn’t going to cave into temptation

[Asker]

I have seen multiple women say this crap on GaG. I honestly would respect them more if they just said “yeah I cheated on my boyfriend/husband. Call me a cheating whore but I don’t care what you think.” Vs “oh I was angry so I did this”.

When you cheat you surrender any claim to any moral high ground. Stop trying to do mental gymnastics to pretend it was “okay”. It’s not.

[kylee2437]

I agree but making excuses is not a one gender thing. My ex literally relied on excuses to treat me like shit meanwhile stayed with me anyways. It’s manipulation and it’s abuse.

[Asker]

@kylee2437 he was a decent guy up until he cheated. But he was a scumbag for doing that and feels remorse for being a dbag. However he doesn’t point the finger at his wife/girlfriend and try blaming her to feel better. He accepts the consequences. He doesn’t want her to leave but he knows she will very likely do that and it’s on him.

[Asker]

@kylee2437 did your ex cheat on you?

[kylee2437]

@asker but if he was a decent guy, he wouldn’t have cheated. Calling someone decent because they own up is justifying the bad that they have to own up to. Cheating is literally a form of lying so just because he’s honest after lying doesn’t mean he didn’t lie.

Secondly, I will never know if my ex cheated on me. The day I broke up with him he lied to me about being home napping when in reality him and his car were not located at his house. He was mentally abusive and used my past to justify treating me like trash

[Asker]

@kylee2437 I don’t doubt your ex was a dbag. But we are talking about cheating here and that’s fundamental issue that is NOT the equivalent to someone doing what your ex did. It’s on another level (did you cheat on him?).

I noticed you are hung up on the “decent guy” verbiage I used earlier. Maybe a more accurate description would be “a guy with a conscious”. Guy #2 understands what it means to own up to something. It means making zero excuses for your behavior, recognizing how much pain you caused someone, a willingness to make amends and accepting the consequences for your decisions.

I’ve rarely heard women say the following when they get caught or confess to cheating:

“hey John although I was upset with you there was no excuse for what I did earlier. I completely crossed the line there and I’ll understand if you leave me. However I want you to know that I own up to being wrong. I could of handled this better but instead I made a shitty and horrible mistake. Whatever you chose to do with me I’ll understand. But I am honestly sorry”.

[Asker]

That is how you own up to being wrong above. But more often than not I see women making up excuses for what they did.

[kylee2437]

@asker the only thing I can say I did wrong to him is I sent me in leggings to a guy for $$$$. It was literally pics I would post online anyways because they weren’t too inappropriate, however he would investigate people I have had relations with before (past sex partners) to use it against me. He used my past (before him) against me and basically punished me for having a past before him.

[kylee2437]

The reason why I am hung up on it is because it’s a justification. You think as long as someone owns up to cheating, then cheating is justified. That’s not how that works.

[Asker]

@kylee2437 well that wasn’t great but at least you didn’t hop in bed with some other guy for “revenge sex” or something.

Owning up to something (not just cheating or anything) means you accept the consequences to your actions. It’s knowing you are NOT justified for what you did. But out of principle you admit your wrong and make zero excuses. You don’t confess to garner sympathy either. Sure you hope to be forgiven but you are ready to face the music.

That’s the difference.

[kylee2437]

@kylee2437 people that revenge sex are petty and truly do not love the person that they are with. I truly loved him but he put me through hell and back with abuse and used my past to justify him not being a good boyfriend to me. “Oh I’m afraid You are going to turn into who you used to be, so that’s why I don’t want to put in effort”

[kylee2437]

Back to the convo though. Owning up is not a one gender thing however. I have owned up to what I’ve done wrong in my relationships and I honestly think most people have a reason for cheating. You can have a reason for cheating and still own up to it. Bottom line is you probably didn’t love them anyways

[Asker]

@kylee2437 alright I am sorry you went through that.

Do you want to know what I went through. I met a girl who was very deep in love with me a few years ago and I loved her as well. But she met me at a bad time in my life and I needed to figure things out my own.

I wanted a break but I didn’t know how to tell her that. She treated me very well. However I didn’t reciprocate the effort. I acted disconnected and douchey at times. I wasn’t as bad as how you described your ex above. But I wasn’t surprised when she wanted to break up either. Honestly I wanted to her to be happy and if that was without me then so be it. But I did love her very much as person. We agreed to have a sad but mutual respect for each other the day the split happened.

[kylee2437]

@asker all good. You live and you learn. I’ve learned a lot going through what I went through.

Anyways hopefully you are in a better place. What you went through is exactly why I am not dating right now at all because I simply feel like I have nothing to give after my last relationship

[Asker]

However we had to communicate for work reasons and a few other issues later. I didn’t expect it to be all happy. But she treated me like I was less than human. She couldn’t even say my f*cking name anymore (she would refer to me as “hey man”). Than something serious came up in my life and literally told me “tough luck your an ex”. I never predicted she would be that cruel and callus. Sure we were broken up but some of things she said to me were just heinous.

[Asker]

And I found a long time later is she f*cking cheated on me right before she broke up with me. She had to see me as less than human to make herself feel better about her bullshit.

[kylee2437]

@asker she sounds shitty she should’ve just broken up with you if she felt like you weren’t giving her enough. I guess the difference between me and her is I chose to stay absolutely loyal to a man that just really didn’t even care, and only wanted to be in a relationship to control me

[Asker]

No i think she cheated to give herself an excuse to break up with me. She never confessed it and I never asked because I completely trusted her at the time.

But she treated me like I was less than pond scum afterwards. Like I was the cheater.

I admit I did douchey and sometimes disrespectful things when we dated. I did check out other women and was borderline flirty. That was wrong and I make absolutely zero excuses for it. However I NEVER crossed the line with anybody. No kissing, contact, etc.

But I found out (years later through a mutual friend) she outright fucked her coworker a week before breaking up with me. I didn’t think she would ever do something like that.

That actually completely explains why she treated me as horribly as she did afterwards. She had to protect her ego by seeing me as scum as the earth to self justify her infidelity.

Honestly I am more pissed off and hurt but how she treated me back then vs the f*cking incident itself. If she would of confessed I would of been angry. But instead I wasted a very long time blaming myself for it not working out. If I would of known about this bs I would of moved on much faster.

[Vegasrunner]

@Rebecka33 I never said anything about women being upfront. Thats just something you're making up most likely because you can't refute my original point. Which again validates what I was saying. You have no issue w/ telling a blatant lie, because you've never had to face the reprecussions of being dishonest.

[Rebecka33]

@Vegasrunner no you can't handle the fact that you men are to blame for not being there for your daughters and then turn around and play the victim

[Vegasrunner]

@Rebecka33 I'm sure that is a position you feel comfortable to hold, especially considering it allows you to deflect blame from your own life failures.

[billmunch]

I dated the same woman for 14 years and from years 7 to 10 she had a full=time side boyfriend. She never really even tried to hide it. Instead, she just kinda gradually slid it into the relationship. She didn't want to end our relationship, so I was fine with it. It just took a bit of getting used to.

[Vegasrunner]

Kylee That is another great example of how women are not held accountable using your age as a justification for your immaturity.

[Vegasrunner]

@asker Whats facinating about her statement is that she never denies that women aren't held accountable. Instead she uses a subtle trick women like to use my deflecting the responsibility onto men. You're also correct as her response has nothing to do w/ your original comment. Which is more a reflection of her own inability to control her emotions.

[Asker]

It’s actually proving my entire point about how many women (not all but too many and their usually leftists) displace guilt and use gaslighting techniques. They can’t own up to being wrong about anything.

When she started saying “white men” are not held accountable that really infuriated me. This question absolutely nothing to do with race. How the f*ck she slipped that bullshit in there is in absolutely incredible. It just goes to show how twisted and brainwashed she is.

[Vegasrunner]

@asker Thats why its good that you asked the question. I wouldn't let it infuriate you because she's given you valuable information about how women think. What I like to focus on is why they think the way they do and questions like yours help.

[Asker]

@vegasrunner it let’s me know what I am dealing with.

However every once in a blue moon I have “gotten through” to some of these women. I am not trying to win an argument just for the sake of arguing. Like take Subaru girl for instance. She posted all kinds of one way woke crap earlier. But very surprisingly we actually managed to effectively communicate in the last few posts. That doesn’t mean we agree but she surprised me. She’s not as bad as I thought.

[Vegasrunner]

@asker Thats awesome. I'm not looking to change anyones opinion, either.
I just like learning how they they so that I can attract more women in my day to day life and forums like GAG give you a large pool of women in which to hear their POV.

[Asker]

I use this to ventilate. That doesn’t mean I’m open minded to lógical and fair minded disagreements. If I can be rationally proven wrong I’ll accept it and occasionally change my position.

Truth is I’ve found myself only getting more frustrated with women on GaG though. I’ve seeing the ugly truth is the truth more often than not.

[Vegasrunner]

@asker Whats the part that frustrates you?

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner actually age does make a difference between maturity. A 44 year old is definitely going to and should have different priorities than a 25 year old. It’s very sad that you are at the age of 44 and spend majority of your time on this app.

[Asker]

@kylee2437 I've seen pretty immature ass women in their 40s on this app. Also life changes when you get older. It’s not a college campus full of tons of single co-Ed’s. Dating gets much tougher.

He’s ventilating and I admittedly to do it too at times. There is virtually nowhere else middle age guys Can speak their minds about romance frustrations without losing face. But as you can see those frustrations are very real.

However the truth is I am ultimately looking for resolutions and well thought insights when I talk about my issues. For example I politely approached an attractive young woman and got politely rejected (good reason she’s taken) last week. I’m not upset but we both belong to a small local CrossFit gym. I am going to run into her again and I don’t look forward to the awkwardness.

I posted about this and got some decent feedback earlier.

[kylee2437]

@asker I never said their aren’t immature women on this app, however I am simply talking about this man that keeps choosing to pick arguments with me , a 25 year old woman. He’s an arrogant, wisdomless , know it all that uses an app to spread his pussy like views because he’s too scared to voice his views in real life. Honestly a lot of men use this app for exactly that, but that’s just it 🤷🏻‍♀️

And I don’t mind people voicing their frustrations however calling a 25 year old woman weak minded for stuff he doesn’t know about my personal life is utterly beyond selfish, abusive and disgusting. He’s a bitter middle aged man that hates women

[Asker]

@kylee2437 alright let’s calm down. I actually didn’t read all the comments between you two expect the last one.

When I get in arguments with women I usually start out by disagreeing with their views without personally insulting them. There is a difference. Just because I disagree with someone doesn’t mean I hate them or vice versa.

However I have had some women take my disagreements as “insults” and they start the cheap shots and ñame calling first. Sometimes i stay cool but other times I get pissed and fire back.

Anyway my advice is try to understand before being understood. For example I used to have some major disagreements with Subaru girl. Oddly enough I got to know her background better (she became a mother at 19) and some of the struggles she’s been through. That doesn’t mean I agree with many of her viewpoints. But I see them differently. We actually found common ground on a few things.

[kylee2437]

@asker seems to me like you are making excuses for him and his words. He’s 44 years old and acts like a mindless idiot. Nice for not holding him accountable.

[Asker]

Trying asking Vegas runner what personal experienced he has had first. Pay some thought to what he (and other guys are saying). It’s not easy but honestly if we know we are getting heard and respected it does calm people down (unless they are a pure troll)

[kylee2437]

@asker why should I ask about his when isn’t respectful when it comes to my personal life? Sorry I have zero energy to be open minded to men that use abusive tactics and throw fits because in real life they are insecure woman haters.

[Asker]

@kylee2437 alright well he definitely rubbed you the wrong way. I am just trying to make peace here. But writing him off as a “woman hater” isn’t likely going to make him behave any differently. However if someone digs deeper and hears him out you might be surprised at the results.

[kylee2437]

@asker sorry but he is a woman hater and that’s why he directs his anger towards women in comments on an anon forum

[Asker]

@kylee2437 alright let’s just drop it on this thread. Nobody is going to get anywhere at this point

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 TY for your personal opinion however I'm not sure why you feel the need to share it w/ me. I dont allow emotions to influence my decisions so I can't to speak to being sad, but I'm flattered that you spend so much of your time concerened about how I spend mine.

[Vegasrunner]

@asker I think one of the best things about forums like GAG is that the evidence is in writing. Anyone who actually reads the exchange will quicky realize that @kylee2437 is sinply being dishonest. She made a ridiculous statement was challenged on it and now is having a difficult time simply admitting she was wrong. A lot of this proves my point about girls being unable to take accountability. Since she can't validate her opinion she's attempting to distract you w/ irrelevant factually incorrect statements. In fact she was asked to provide any example of an "angry or emotional" statement from me and when she failed to do so she continued w/ her own enotional rant. Reality is she's not knowledgeable enough at all about the original topic but she "feels" like her opinion should be heard and she's being treated like anyone who is ignorant of a subject would be. She's mad because like most 25 year old girls she's not used to being held accountable especially by men.

[Rebecka33]

I wouldn't lie about it at that point I'd be honest it's 100 percent because of my daddy issues.

[Asker]

Well the first step is to own up to it. It’s okay to explain why you cheated but you also need to own up to be 100% in the wrong.

Some women think that misbehaving and/or abusive actions from their partner is the equivalent to them cheating. One is wrong but the other is even worse.

[Rebecka33]

But I'm not in the wrong if it's a need I have see that's where your wrong it's not wrong when. A strong development needm

[Rebecka33]

I would tell any guy to walk so I can get my daddy first that's the way it should be.

[Rebecka33]

I mean how would you like it if you never ever had a mom period

[Rebecka33]

How would you like it if you never had a mom or mommy and then your constantly told you'll never have one over time would make you more bitter if anything

[Asker]

If you are not happy with your relationship then just break up and then do what you want to do.

But many people hesitate because they want the best of both worlds. They want to have the support of the relationship AND the thrill of random sexual encounters. That’s why you see all the “open relationship” crap going on nowadays. I see it on dating apps all the time.

At least that above is honest about what you want. But to me the difference between a relationship vs a friendship is commitment.

Anyway not to have the pot call the kettle black. I’ve been very tempted to cheat at times when I was relationships in the past. But I did the RIGHT thing and respected my then girlfriend and declined.

[Rebecka33]

Well the thing is is my significant other doesn't want to be a daddy to me so that's his choice

[Asker]

Ah you are going to have lifelong romance issues if you don’t get the root of the problem and get it resolved.

I personally have “mommy issues” and it has negatively impacted my past relationships. But that’s not going to be used as an excuse to cheat or look for a woman to “take care of me.” Virtually no decent women will tolerate that.

[Rebecka33]

Wel many men love being sugar daddies so different for men

[Asker]

You need some help lady.

[Rebecka33]

Yes two bad my dad and mother didn't realize that when. They should've though rof that and didn't care

[raddisn]

Not sure why women feel they are obligated to give a reason for cheating but men aren't. Men and women stray from their partner for different reasons

[Asker]

@raddisn they don’t want to be labeled cheating whores. They worry more about their reps. They also have a harder time admitting guilt.

Personally I rather have a woman flat out admit that “yes I cheated and no I don’t care” vs trying to give some bs excuse. Either admit your a scumbag or 100% own up to your mistake.

There is a difference between a mistake being understandable vs. trying to justify a mistake. The latter is about repentance.

[Rebecka33]

I never had da dad so I have every right to have that relationship like most other girls

[Asker]

You don’t have a right to cheat.

[raddisn]

Don't judge Rebecca too harshly. No one knows what she has gone through as a child. We all have some type of disfunction in our family's in many ways. My upbringing is different than others so I can't judge others

[raddisn]

Asker u obviously have a well rooted family history. Most don't. So don't judge unless u have been in her shoes.

[Asker]

@raddisn I was raised by an abusive and domineering mother who has never apologized to me for any of her bullshit. She brainwashed me to bend over backwards and kiss women’s asses from a young age. She was born beautiful and this gave her more leverage to control my dad which she absolutely did all she could.

This lead to me getting walked on and treated like compete shit in my dating years. It took me a lot of years, therapy, research and very difficult self change to understand why hell I am “too nice” to women.

Truth I was terrified to being married to someone who behaves like my mother. I have briefly dated controlling women before but I quickly cut it off.

But we always hear about women having an absent or abusive mothers. But it’s rarely talked about how men are sometimes raised by abusive mothers. We are considered weak and “bitches” if we complain about that.

But I would never use my negative experience with my mother as an excuse to cheat on someone. Hell no

[Asker]

*women having controlling or absentee fathers

[Rebecka33]

She the f up you don't know me or no what it's like to have no father at all go away.

[Rebecka33]

I never got to hug a guy ever I'm assuming you at least had a women hug you growing up and reach out somewhat.

[Smashingdoozy]

I'm sure most people regardless of gender would make up excuses. People in general don't like being called out on their shitty behavior

[Asker]

Call me sexist all you want. But I honestly see women doing mental gymnastics way more often then men do. Some of them call cheating “an accident” like they slipped on a banana peel and landed on some guys D or something.

Men are either hot or cold when they get caught. They are either very guilt stricken or they just don’t give a shit.

[kylee2437]

@asker but she didn’t even call you sexist. you are rejecting what you know you are being right now

[kylee2437]

Projecting not rejecting*

[Smashingdoozy]

That's a typical line for men actually... "It was an accident" "I was drunk" "I thought she was you"

[Asker]

@kylee2437 we already have our own conversation going on above on your thread. Keep it there. Thank you.

[kylee2437]

@asker I’m allowed to dive into another comment if I observe that you suggested a term that she never said.

[Asker]

@kylee2437 and you are once again trying to hijack the conversation. You are also switching gears. We had our own discussion going on earlier. At least finish that one off first.

[kylee2437]

@asker I am not trying to hijack the convo I am simply pointing out something I noticed. Why are you trying to deflect what I observed? Is it because you know justification isn’t one sided and you are just trying to create banter?

[Vegasrunner]

Woman aren't held accountable in society so they have no reason to own up to their mistakes.

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner uhhh women and men definitely have to abide by the same laws.

[Smashingdoozy]

@Vegasrunner men are also not held accountable. Especially white men.

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 Who said anything about laws?

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner okay so since we are talking about society, why are all our school shooters males?

[Vegasrunner]

@Smashingdoozy TY so you agree that women aren't held accountable for their actions?

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner let’s talk about the woman that shot another possible mass male shooter

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 I didn't see anything about school shootings in the question are you sure you're tagging the right person?

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner we are talking about holding accountability. Obviously the amount of mass shootings among males show how little accountability males have in society

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 How does that relat to the original question?

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner you decided to go off topic and make this question about women not being held accountable in society yet the series of events that have happened in the world have fallen in the hands of the male species

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 I see where you're confused. The majority of mass shooters are either killed or prosecuted so by definition they are held accountable for their actions which goes to validate my point.

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner I disagree. They aren’t being held accountable enough to the point where mass shootings from males keep happening over and over again.

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 Lol, the question literally ask why do women make up excuses for cheating. You're talking about school shootings. Wouldn't you be the one "off topic"?

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner you mentioned how women aren’t held accountable in society and I literally brought up a valid and recent topic of examples of males not being held accountable in society.

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 You disagreing isn't relevant. By definition they are being held accountable. Do you know understand what the word accountable means?

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner if shootings keep happening over and over again, they aren’t being held accountable and it’s evident.

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 However your example not only was false it was inaccurate. Im not a fan of school shooters but most to all of them are held accountable via death or prosecution. You're making my point for me.

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner actually it’s not false because school shootings are still being allowed to happen.

[Smashingdoozy]

@kylee2437 sorry I have to disagree the issues with shootings isn't about not being held accountable. It's about access to guns.

But yes Vegas runner I agree that many ~people~ aren't held accountable. I don't think it's a one or the other situation though. Two issues can exist simultaneously.

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 No. Sounds like you dont understand what the word accountable means. The fact that each school shooting is done by a different person proves that the shooters are held accountable. If they were not you would have the same person doing school shootings over and over again. How many times has the same individual been responsible for a school shooting?

[kylee2437]

@Smashingdoozy you have school shooters in prison literally being publicized and motivating others to kill because they hold “fame” to their name. It is also about guns but I think there’s certain circumstances where certain genders aren’t held accountable in certain topics in society. It literally goes in , in men not holding themselves accountable to lack of taking care of mental health

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 That is a policy issue not an accountability issue.

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner there’s so much that goes into it, lack of men taking accountability for their own mental health is a huge start and also this was a convo on another topic we were discussing on a different forum where you literally equaled being emotions to being feminine

[kylee2437]

Being emotional*

[Vegasrunner]

@Smashingdoozy Lol, the fact that you have to apologize to @kylee2437 proves my point. She is factually incorrect, however because she is arguing w/ a man you are reluctant to hold her accountable. Men are held accountable every day usually by other men. However in todays society we are reluctant to challenge woman when they are incorrect. If accountability were applied equally you wouldn't feel the need to apologize but we have to codle women so much.

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner or maybe she’s apologizing because she’s trying to have a friendly debate like she usually does , meanwhile from the convos I’ve seen from you and have been in, you get aggressive and get upset when people apologize in debates. I’m not offended she didn’t side with me. You obviously have emotional hate towards women where you only answer questions that demonetize women 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 The irony in your statement is that it validates my point. You're providing your opinion as a statement of fact. You may have an opinion of why you believe there are mass shootings however the fact is all mass shooters are held accountable via death or prosecution. My point is if you were a man you would eventually have to accept this fact, as a women you are allowed to continue to be factual incorrect because society is relectant to hold women accountable.

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner and the irony of you is you prove over and over again why men need to be held accountable on taking steps to better mental health. From the series of convos I’ve had with you, you lack showing emotions which get suppressed to you taking out your anger on women , which shows with how you have chosen to answers your questions since 95% of your answers demonetize women. Anger = suppressed emotions

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 TY for following my conversations however if what you were saying were true you would be able to provide proof considering these conversations are in writting. Instead you've done what a lot of women do which is hide behind your gender and emotion to deflect from the fact that your argument is invalid.

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner uhh in another forum you literally said showing emotions is a feminine trait. Then you wonder why men show more signs of anger than women do. Actually my point is valid. Men obviously lack account in the mental health field. My initial point of bringing up men in this convo is there’s certain aspects of society where men aren’t held accountable.

[kylee2437]

Lack accountability

[kylee2437]

School shootings are a perfect example of men suppressing emotions/traumas and it turning into anger 🤷🏻‍♀️ so my example is still valid

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 You are more than welcome to hold whatever opinion you like. However I would like to point out yet another contridiction in one sentence you claim there is a lack of emotion and in the next you claim there is anger which is an emotion. Seeing how those two things can't coexist which one is it anger it lack of emotion?

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner you mean contradiction? Uhhh because when you mean being emotional is feminine you mean vulnerable emotions like crying, admitting you are depressed and need mental health help etc. Anger is literally feeling a coping mechanism to not wanting to be vulnerable.

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 Perhaps that is true however you have yet to provide one of those aspects of society where it is. Yes men should not make emotional decisions that is a female trait evident by the fact that you are attempting to argue a factually incorrect point simply because you "feel" like you're correct.

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner actually it is factually correct seeing how majority of abusive relationships are committed by men, majority of mass shootings are committed by men, majority of crimes are committed by men etc

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 None of those things have anything to do w/ accountability. It's simply your opinion, and because we dont hold women accountable you haven't been taught that your opinion is not a fact which ironically proves my point.

[kylee2437]

I just brought up a topic where men aren’t held accountable and I actually brought up factual proof because majority of those points are from angry men. Your initial comment , that you chose to comment and previous comments I have seen from you today actually project angry man “I hate women” stigma vibes 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 TY for sharing your personal opinon however it doesn't have any relevance to the original question or conversation. Also you continue to mention these "angry" comments yet have been unable to provide any evidence of them. If what you were saying was true then why are you unable to provide any evidence of these comments?

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner is that why you had to run to a previous forum to tell me I associate with weak minded individuals for bringing up that I have close ones that have recently lost 2 loved ones that were males due to those two males suppressing their emotions?

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 It is very difficult to be a man in this world partly because men are held accountable. The reality is there are some weak minded individuals like your friends boyfriends that decide to take the easy way out. Bigger question is what does it say about you that you associate w/ these weak minded individuals?

[kylee2437]

@vegasrunners my friends are actually the strongest people I know. What does it say about you that you angry type to women all night on a forum knowing that you are 44 years old instead of going to therapy like grown, mature and self aware people do?

[kylee2437]

Imagine being 44 years old and being a know it all , arrogant douche bag on a public forum angry typing because you hate women and hate therapy and hate emotions. What a flex

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 They may be the strongest people you know, however they dont sound like very strong people.

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner and you sound like you lack empathy, wisdom and are far behind your age group. Another flex

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 Unfortunately I can't emphasize w/ you because I dont associate w/ men weak enough to commit suicide.

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner lmfao! You are a weak man. You use a forum to minimize your pussy like views of the world.

[Vegasrunner]

@kylee2437 Seeing how we're using the same forum what does that say about you?

[kylee2437]

@Vegasrunner yes because you decided to comment back on the other forum hours after my reply replying stuff that show your true colors because you don’t want people on this forum to know how you actually are so you can “win” your battle

[kylee2437]

And the difference is , is I’m 25 you are 44. You are too old to be acting this way. Like I said you are far behind in wisdom when it comes to your age

[Smashingdoozy]

@kylee2437 he really doesn't quit 🤣

[kylee2437]

@Smashingdoozy Bruh I pray when I’m 44 I’m not this much of a loser 😂 calling a 25 year old weak minded , angry typing women, going back and fourth on multiple forums so he can hide what his true colors are so he can “win” battles and try to make me look crazy. 😂😂😂😂 oh man

[Rebecka33]

@Vegasrunner after the fact they are held accountable however you want women to say things and be honest up front so why don't school shooters then Co e clean and tell people they are gonna shoot people first and why and give more specifics and the school and thats worse cause they're killing someone Inc heating only hurting self to get a need met.

[Anonymous]

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