Search Results: he has feelings for his ex

Why can't I make up my mind about my ex? Why do I have such ambivalent feelings for him?

My ex and I had a rocky 3.5 year relationship, when things were good they were really good, and when things were bad they were really bad, although there was no cheating or abuse, nothing major. We first broke up more...

NessyTheMonster

Xper 6 Age: 28

My ex said there is no coming back to make me move on faster but does that really mean he’s not coming back?

He thinks I deserve better because I’m more rich than him and he stopped the relationship for my own good. He said it’s wrong timing as well. He’s graduating in October and then he said he needs to figure out his life...

flowercactus

Xper 2 Age: 29

When I told him that he was my man after he tells me that I’m his girl , that doesn’t mean anything right?

Hey guys, so my guy best friend and I have been friends for almost 2 years. At the end of last year I told him that my now ex boyfriend cheated on me , but after I told him that I’ve noticed how ge started treating me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Guy I’m seeing asked his ex to remove photos of him is he in the right?

I’ve been seeing a guy for a month now and going great! When he asked me out before I was a bit cautious of him as he noticed he was tagged in photos with a girl on dates however the last photo was months ago. He had told...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I the problem here?

My boyfriend and I have had the same fight for nearly 2 years. Over picture albums of his ex. Since we met he has had 3 phones, each phone has contained a dedicated album titled “Becca and me” and it is filled with 20-30...

89user7854

Xper 2 Age: 33

What is he really thinking?

A very good friend of mine is a guy - blah blah blah you know all that kind of story already so I won't go into it too much. A couple of months ago we were just having a general conversation when he suddenly said how he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I think he hasn’t gotten over his ex, what do you think?

They both were childhood friends and grew up in the same neighborhood, went to all the same schools and have a lot of mutual friends. They have been boyfriend and girlfriend since 2012 and broke up in 2020. The breakup...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What is the purpose of an ex abusively controlling boyfriend to pretend that after the breakup he finally found peace and freedom?

During the relationship, which was long distance, he was the real insecure controller: he banned me from posting pictures on social media, even if it was a normal picture, my body shouldn't appear, made me remove old...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I was intimate with a coworker and then he blocked me?

I was in a 6 year relationship and I have three kids. We broke up two months ago. I started talking to a guy from work who I always found attractive. We ended up kissing and having sex. My ex found out that I was intimate...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, am I crazy that I thought that we may end to something real? Does the whole story mean that I am not a relationship material?

3 months ago I broke up with my ex boyfriend. I loved him but the last 8 months we had no sex life. Even if I do not hook up with random guys, right after the break up the only thing I wanted was to jump into a non...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If a cheater begs to be taken back isn't that manipulative and selfish?

It happened to my older sister. It's a good thing she slammed the door on his face and blocked him. She hasn't spoken to him in over 4 years. But he was begging to be taken back (bombarding her email, cell with calls,...

ChicanaChick

Xper 6 Age: 28

Why would my ex tell me he’s lonely and depressed?

He broke up with me months ago and I’ve begged and I be tried my absolute hardest to get him back but disregarded my feelings and my efforts. He always has these random low points where I’ll just ignore him and cut...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would my ex tell me he’s lonely and depressed?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would he delay returning my things when he has no feelings for me and is now in a relationship?

We "broke up" just under 3 months ago. He told me he stopped himself having feelings for me and didn't allow himself to get attached. He said he can't think on terms of a relationship and doesn't want one with me or...

RedGamer

Xper 4 Age: 37

Dating

Should I mention to my boyfriend about this guy, something with him is off?

Before my current boyfriend, I used to have multiple sex partners by choice or one-night stands but once we started dating I said goodbye to all. A lot of my friends don't support it cause they thought I'd have a fling...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should be My Next Step?

I have this guy friend for a little over 10 years. I learned early on in our friendship that I can not just go up to him and stat a conversation because it throws him off since I believe he plans on what he is going to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend broke up with me (both medical students) because of his family issues, how should I proceed?

My ex (23M) and I (25F) are in medical school together and love each other very much, but I was recently dumped by him and I don't know what to do. He has a very complicated family life and has difficulty talking about...

Lcamps

Xper 3 Age: 29