Am I the problem here?

[89user7854]

My boyfriend and I have had the same fight for nearly 2 years.

Over picture albums of his ex.

Since we met he has had 3 phones, each phone has contained a dedicated album titled “Becca and me” and it is filled with 20-30 photos of them kissing, hugging, on vacation etc. Even at one point some nudes of her.

My boyfriend does NOT have a photo album of me, us, or our vacations.
He has never kept a single nude I sent him.

There has NEVER been a dedicated album for me or us.

Last night we were at dinner, and he pulled up his photos, right there was two albums. “Recent photos” and a separate album yet again, with a cover picture of him wrapped around his ex hugging her titled “mine”.

No album of me, no pictures of us.
He doesn’t get it.
Am I the problem?
Are my feelings valid?

[Biancam13]

Yeah this sounds very very fishy, and your feelings are definitely valid. You are worth ay more than this treatment from your boyfriend as he doesn't sound like he's over his ex. I would let this one go honestly, at least until he decides what he really wants. I'm sorry x