Search Results: told on ex

Why did he blame me for ruining the relationship, when I wasn’t the one who jokingly flirted with other people?

My ex boyfriend (23m) and I (25F) were together for 2 years, almost 3. Around August of 2023, problems started surging between the both of us. The issues started happening when I saw how he would flirt with a girl and her...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I tell my abusive ex I am sorry for hurting him when getting a divorce?

We were together for six years. He was very controlling from the start, but I was so certain it would pass and he would accept me for who I am eventually. If I did everything as he said, we had peace at home, but the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My friend keeps going back to him even though he treats her awfully, should we stop giving her advice and let her do her own thing?

My friend has had a pretty consistant casual relationship with this guy, right at the start it was going well, however a few months in she noticed that when she would be at the pub he worked at he would ignore her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do most men suck at giving comfort/consol?

All my ex bfs & including my current boyfriend. No matter how serious the topic is i find they are cold, unresponsive, no sympathy or empathy. I also don’t feel like they do it with ill intentions its just how they are. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to get my ex back?

Hi, guys! I am 25 years old. During the recent months, I was very upset and nervous due to my new job, it is really stressful. I boyfriend told me he saw I wasn't happy which was true, I was constantly coming home very...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What would you do if an ex came to you, an ex who demanded an open marriage/relationship, demanding you pay for her STD treatments?

My ex wife about 10 months ago, demanded an open marriage, I responded with divorce papers. She announced this at our 19th wedding anniversary party, in front of our family. A week later i handed her divorce papers, and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Am I a terrible person for disliking people who get clingy over text and small talk?

I have always been an introvert and I don't talk much. However, I can text pretty well. Now, the issue is whenever I'm talking to someone I do not know well, often it leads to them getting clingy. I only expect casual...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is he actually busy with work, trying to let me down easy, or playing games?

I’ve been seeing this guy for about two months. Around the one-month mark, he brought up that he thought I was acting jealous and said he didn’t see things working out long-term. It felt completely out of the blue—we were...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm dating my ex's dad. How do I tell him?

Her dad knows but my ex-boyfriend doesn't.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Not sure when I stand with a guy?

I have a one-off thing with someone. We reconnected for the last few weeks, spoke for about two weeks before we met up where I was with him to really late until 2-3 am, however he wanted to have the whole night but I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My guy friend slowly seems to be getting distant and taking forever to respond but says everything is good?

My guy friend and I started talking in January on instagram when he was out of the country. I knew him cause of his ex. They had broken up months before we started talking as she was cheating. After 3 weeks of talking and...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Ex wants me to try and get her feelings to grow for me? Is it possible since she had feelings for me?

My ex has a crush and she told me u can try and get my feelings back for you.. After a left her so she moved on and had a crush.. But after i wanted her back but was too late.. So she told me she doesn't want me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does my ex always blame me for our kids’ stupid decisions and acts like she is the better parent than me?

Our kids’ are in their 20’s and my son has severe ADHD and unfortunately he makes dumb decisions, My ex acts like his stupid decisions are my fault , she never takes accountability for the way our kids’ turned out , she...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Am I the problem?

Ok get this. My boyfriend ghosts me and then tries to break up with me through one of my friends let's call her Sally. Sally sent him a long message of what he was doing wasn't okay. He ghosted me for 2 days!!! And my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

My ex best friend keeps trying to talk to me how do I get her to leave me alone?

Me and my ex best friend haven't talked since last February. We were friends for 2 years and did lots together and were super close but things started getting really toxic and she treated my really shitty when I was a...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Am I crazy for being bothered with him still? Or no?

Back in 2017, after I had given birth to my daughter, her daddy got someone else pregnant. He hasn't been in her life for 7 years. So, one night when I was at the bar, I met my now ex-boyfriend. We started talking, having...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it true that sometimes the person you’re looking for has been right in front of you all along?

One time my grandma told me that sometimes something that you’re looking for a right in front of you and you need to just open your eyes to true love and the person that’s always loved you and notices you, even if that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He's making me lose my mind. why can't I break away from him?

My ex-boyfriend and I are still talking and having sex. He's seeing another woman, and I'm talking to other guys as well. But the thing is, I'm not sleeping with any of them. The only person I'm sleeping with is my...

Anonymous

(30-35)