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So growing up insanely sheltered with helicopter parents, I never really had much of a chance to do it young. Unfortunately I also have really bad social anxiety so just the thought of doing it freaks me out and makes me keep putting it off. I've been working to over come my anxiety disorder but I know a lot of women aren't fond of virgins. Is it enough to make you flat out deny a man you would have otherwise been interested in?

I probably wouldn’t. I’m not controlling or insecure nor religious.

I just have values.

I’m a virgin.

Also I don’t see how people can just hookup. I’ve turned it down a couple of times. I couldn’t make love to a random woman. That’s dirt.

• I am also well aware I will probably never find love. I don’t believe there is a girl for me out there. For many reasons

A girl I was wanting to marry is marrying someone else on April 22. I am having a really hard time coping with it.

She never had a male friend before she met me. She never had a boyfriend, first love, first kiss, and was still a virgin. I thought I found the one at one point. We carried an online thing for several months until I met her for the first time in person, and she discovered I wasn't her type. She ended up meeting some other guy shortly after who she fell in love with and they are getting married in like 2 weeks.

Meanwhile, I am still single with hardly any friends and live on my own.

I wonder if I will ever find a other girl like her, one without a romantic past.

I have been struggling with a lot of depression lately. I am 27 (turning 28 this year) and never had a real girlfriend before.

Back in June 2020, I met this girl on a coding forum. We really hit it off and had an online thing going for 5 months. I finally met her in person in November of 2020, where she discovered I wasn't her type. I was heartbroken.

She never had a male friend before she met me. She was a devout Catholic girl that was sheltered and homeschooled her entire life in the farmlands of rural Illinois along with 6 other siblings. She never had a boyfriend before, never kissed, and was a virgin. She was exactly the girl I was looking for, because I sought a girl without a romantic past, and she was perfect.

I was very heartbroken when she broke up with me. I didn't really count her as a real girlfriend because what we had was almost all online and she dumped me when we met in person for the first time.

Anyways, she met some other guy whom she became serious with back in early 2020. She was engaged to him a few months later, and they are expected to be married on the 22nd this month. I have been struggling about it, especially because her wedding day is approaching. This guy will get to be her first everything... her first love, the first guy to see her naked, the first guy to take her virginity, and everything!