My Dating Life Is Dry, What Should I Do?

[MrSpine]

Hello, I'm 20 and in the navy. I've realized that my dating life is empty. I've never been on a date, I'm still a virgin and etc. I tried to get women and they all rejected me or just used me for their benefit for the past 4 months, I stopped caring about it and moved on because I kind of just lost hoped. I'm stationed at a place where there's a shit ton of men and few women; this has made it a lot worse. Tinder is fucking trash but that's a whole different story. What Do You Guys Think I should do? I still want a girl but after all of this it has crushed my hopes.

[JoyGirl]

At least you are not using girls…LMAO
Guy is the armed service seem to have trouble sticking to one girl…lmao
They can hop from one girl to the next, and get married to like 3 different women, at different times…LOL
Imma be honest, I am salty against guys in the armed forces. I had a sad experience. He was definitely not a serious guy…

Anywayssssssss…that is besides the point. All I can tell you is that you should just focus on YOURSELF, and the Navy. Don’t force ANYTHING. Just let things happen naturally. You will one day come across a cute chick, and hit it off. You are still young, so you have plenty of time in the dating society. 💜

[HighlyVolatile]

Maybe have some fun including being just friendly with whatever few women you encounter. You spend too much time with mostly guys in testosterone-filled male-dominated environments and it can seem like men and women are from different planets seeking to conquer each other. You shake that away and hang out with women more as just people and you tend to make some friends and also some dates and also get laid.

[HighlyVolatile]

I tried a voice thing as a continuation. I hope you'll forgive some poor English:
https://voca.ro/1msk9IbVcx3f

[DaySpring]

1ST) - Stop Playing The Victim

2ND) Figure Out How to get what you want and then apply discipline.

Do those 2 things and you'll find you girl and be a better man brother. #1 is crucial. You're not the victim. You have all the power to change your life and get the things you want out of life. You're more powerful than you can imagine.

[JoyGirl]

How is he playing the victim? What did I just read? 😂

[DaySpring]

@JoyGirl If you reread his words, you'll see that he is working with the woe is me mentality. It is easy to detect. Without having to quote him; he blames others, things, and his circumstances instead of taking responsibility for his life.

It's not that his words aren't justifiable, but when one plays the victim they give their power away which undermines their ability to overcome the situation.

[JoyGirl]

Hmmm…I guess that makes sense. 🤔

[ShadezMcgee]

... so are you Air Force or Navy? You have said Air Force in prior posts.

[Iron_Man]

Why can’t you find a girl at college such an excellent opportunity

[MrSpine]

I'm not at college

[Iron_Man]

Maybe join a dating app I don’t know How about the mall where everybody eats girls love the mall

[UniquelyBasic]

Use Lube

[JoyGirl]

Tf…lol
That is not his question. 😂

[UniquelyBasic]

@JoyGirl 😂😂 👍

[MrSpine]

Probably have to if I'm going to keep going in this direction