Search Results: i like him but he lives far away

The 22-year-old in question owns a white 2022 Ford Mustang GT Premium (automatic), and the 27-year-old in question is a "trap mom" (as she calls herself) who owns a green 2021 Dodge Charger R/T Scat Pack narrow-body (automatic). Both girls have mostly guys (who also own such fast cars) taking photoshoots of them around their cars. They're very active on Instagram.

The 22-year-old never gave me ANY attention. She gave ONE comment of mine a like, that's it. She's younger than me by NEARLY a month. We're both 2000 babies!

The 27-year-old however was free to dm me (I was flirty with her and her car, she loved that), like most of my comments, even gave me a shoutout. But HOLY CRAP, I thought she didn't like me at first.

I don't have a car of my own. The 22-year-old lives in Florida, and the 27-year-old lives in California (*but* too damn far away from where I live).

Neither girl follows me back, but the 27-year-old "trap mom" liked many of my posts as I gave her some attention.

I also tend to give unique and funny compliments that stand out. I don't just say a girl is beautiful or gorgeous anymore, that's some "nice guy" shit obviously.

Honestly, I never had a girlfriend before and I am really looking to get back on Tinder and Bumble so that God can find the right girl for me.

I'm honestly unwilling to date a girl who drives a fast car either way (especially a high-performance V8 muscle car). I'm worried she might do dangerous activities or be a bad influencer not just on me but on my family.

I'm more into girls that drive basic cars like the Civic, Accord, Corolla, Camry. F*ck Nissan and the pre-2009 Hyundai/Kia tbh.

From what I've seen in my life, it really doesn't work, the ones I've seen almost always occur from the guy asking her out but she liked someone else more so she said no.

He doesn't give up hope and keeps in contact with her in the hopes that she'll one day be with him (she won't) and the girl uses him for validation. This is very dysfunctional and a terrible situation for one to keep themselves in and to her, he'll always be the guy who wasn't good enough to be with her.

Most girls say yes when I ask if a guy and a girl can be just friends but then when I ask if he likes her, I have yet to receive a "no" answer. Again, supporting my point. Some like to make the case that relationships start out as friendships but then when I probe that comment, again my point is further illustrated when they answer "no" when I ask if they've ever dated a friend.

Furthermore, men and woman are polar opposites in terms of interests, politics, and hobbies that can't be merged together unless it was a love connection in which both parties share their lives together romantically. For that reason, I believe that a man and a woman cannot and should not try to be friends. Although I don't believe in having friends at all as I consider having connections to anyone other than my girlfriend a burden which will only drain me and take time away from me and her together. I also don't consider people trustable nowadays as guys are constantly trying to steal people's girlfriend's and cheat on their own girlfriends as well. So i aggressively avoid bonding with others, sometimes treating others with hostility as a deterrent.