Search Results: not looking for a relationship

What do you first look for when considering a relationship with someone?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Netflix and chill and Drinking or just a chill thing with drinking?

Okay, to the point. I asked this woman that knows I like her, and she knows I want to Fuck her, and be in a relationship with her and all. Right now we a friends but not like a friend zone deal. I asked her let have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I get them to leave me alone dating apps or friend apps? Should I say I don’t want to talk to them?

I keep attracting Black men on this app where you can find friends or possibly a relationship—like dating, something fun, or something casual. I wish they would stop texting me, because it’s always the same questions...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Would you mind to be seen in public with your SO?

or you dotn care what other people think? Or also it depends on the situation in order for you to mind or not mind? Here Im talking about public figures (musicians, celebs, movie stars). We all know they are under the...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

At what point of being in the friendzone, does trying to make it a relationship become pathetic?

A lot of people believe that being in the friendzone with someone you ACTUALLY want to be in a relationship with is a completely lost cause, but so many people have also said, they started as friends, or s/he had a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Does my ex feel regret?

Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago went no contact after he said life was busy couldn’t be in a relationship a week ago we went to our friends party and he was just looking down all the time and avoided being around me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do women in relationships fantasise over other men?

Men who do their best. Do women still tend to have occasional lustful thoughts over other men? I ask because men do it, we are wired to. I do think it’s more innocent though as long as the man controls himself Can you...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Men who do their best. Do women still tend to have occasional lustful thoughts over other men? I ask because men do it, we are wired to. I do think it’s more innocent though as long as

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My 30yr old girlfriend sleeps in the same bed with her mum a lot, is that normal?

I'm 37 and my girlfriend is 30 we started a long distance relationship knowing she would be moving closer to my area, anyway she told me she sleeps in her bed with her mum, as there's rats in the place they were staying...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If he misses me why won’t he tell me?

I’ve been sleeping with this guy for 17 years on and off. He has a relationship and so do I. But we always come back to each other. He reaches out recently and asked where I was - this is code for I want to see you. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it bad to sleep with him on the first date?

I’ve been talking to this guy everyday for a month. We connected on tinder. We get along nicely. We don’t have particularly deep conversations but there was chemistry in person and I slept with him on the first date. We...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should I do?

I’ve been talking on and off again with this guy for a year and a half. His life is quite complicated and he doesn’t deal with stress well. He started messaging me while he will still with his partner, it started off very...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it a relationship-ending situation when your boyfriend looks at another girl, or is it just human nature?

Let's say your boyfriend is looking at another girl while you're there. He doesn't say anything inappropriate, but you see his eyes wandering around. Some people say it's harmless and part of being human. Others think...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How to deal with Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style?

We broke up 3 times. 2 year relationship down the drain. I felt we did love each other. In my gut though I feel this is it. It’s been a week since the breakup. He unadded me on snap then quickly readded me and turned his...

Zabuza

Xper 5 Age: 23

Girlfriend’s constant complaints and hot and cold attitude is putting me off. What should I do?

We’re in the early stages of a relationship. Lately we’ve been having an issue where she’s been acting hot and cold. She’s a bit uptight and serious and I’m more easygoing. We’ve been having this constant back and forth...

Silver89

Xper 4 Age: 37

Am I crazy or are these signs? PT 1?

I’ve known my crush for 9 years. We used to be really close but a couple years ago he stopped talking to me because I was coming on to him a little too hard and he didn’t have the same feelings. About a year later he...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

She tells me she doesn't love me but still has feelings for me?

Been dating someone now which was for a long while long distance but we would always call every night and chat throughout the day, She's now moved down south a lot closer to where I am but she's been understandably...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does a guy come back to look for a girl repeatedly if he is not into her?

I met a guy who ignored me in college, but years later, through networks, we started talking intensely. He hid from me that he lived with his daughter's mother and was with her. I found out, but we remained friends until...

eli23421cd

Xper 1 Age: 26

Guys, 'you are gorgeous', what does it mean?

I mostly wonder if you say something like that to a woman, is it just a way of saying you find her physically attractive or does it go any deeper than looks? I was told that by a guy who made it very clear who is...

Whatsever

Xper 1 Age: 31