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We got AI Girlfriends obviously. At the same time it is no surprise. The demand was always there in one way or another and it was clear, that it's going to be a success and they created them. Hence I'm personally convinced, that men & boys (not all of course) love women & girls (not all of course).

But what about the girls? Do they want or need an AI boyfriend?

Or nah because...

Well?

I read this in a fantasy novel called: The Etherial Squadron by Shami Stovall...

"Women want men who are gentle with them, but rough with everyone else. You have to be tough on the outside, but soft enough for them to feel like they've learned the real you."

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"Second, you need to make eye contact as much as you can. Across the room. In a conversation. While you eat. Whenever. you.
Can. Women love it when you stare deeply into their eyes. Lastly, you need to pick a physical feature about them and compliment it as the most beautiful you have ever seen. Her eyes. Her hair. Her complexion. No other girl compares. Got it?"

In china a lot of people call women 30+ ‘left over women’ ‘the orange that didn’t get sold’ ‘the sugarcane that didn’t get sold’

Whereas men single and 30 get called ‘quality real estate’

Makes sense, after all they will be the biggest superpower. You have to shame people, if there’s no accountability nor values what’s the point. People need to be settling down earlier so they can have kids.

Women and people generally are too selfish these days, I’m struggling to find a really good woman that’s ready to settle down. I find i match with tons but it leads to ghosting etc.

I went through this about 10 years ago. My then 25 year old girlfriend made more than me when I was 32. But at the time I was pursuing a dream (I was a professional athlete) and I my time was consumed with training. I was no dead beat but I just had a different focus at the time.

I was doing freelance work just to pay the bills and I was struggling. She even offered me money at one time (which extremely kind of her) but it I turned it down out of pride and went further in debt.

Anyway the insecurity was on my side when it can to this (also contributed to our break up). She didn’t care but I did. It had a lot to with being raised to “be a man” when it came to being a breadwinner.

Nowadays I make a lot more money given I’m retired from my sport and have full focus on my career. But I am also a lot more “boring” now since I’m no longer the free wheeling adventurer I once was.

But money is a touchy issue. Form a evolutionary perspective I really do believe most women still subconsciously expect a man to provide for them even it’s unnecessary or impractical. They might get into short term flings with guys who offer other benefits (looks, excitement, adventurer, personality, etc) but when it comes to long term commitments they have a much higher bar on this

I also believe when a woman makes more money then her boyfriend/husband she’s more prone to cheating. Especially if she is comparable to him when it comes to looks (maybe she will stay loyal if she’s physically unattractive compared to him)

In fact I believe it’s unfairly more socially “acceptable” for a woman to do this given the guy is considered a “chump” if he is financial dependent on her. More more acceptable then vice versa.

I have a divorced uncle who worked a low paying his entire life and was supported by his (comparably) rich wife. She was no multi millionaire but she earned a lot more than him.

She ended up cheating on him the entire marriage. He tolerated it because they had kids and he needed support.