Search Results: does not deserve him

My abusive brother is getting married, can an abusive man change?

I have a very abusive brother who constantly beat me and abused me and blackmailed me for years. He would control my clothes and when I went out and with who and if he saw me with a guy he would beat me. He broke my thumb...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I sorta threatened my parents and I don't know what to do now?

So im a teen (girl) and i have a difficult relationship with my parents. Like anything i or my siblings say or do will trigger them. And my sister who's older than me is literally depressed and does self harm because of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He over reacts, means he cheats?

We discovered our common friend is trying to flirt with my coworker, my boyfriend said he is not surprised because that guy will "fuck anything" and told me he thinks that guy doesn't deserve his wife if he does those...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend fathers left them and now he builds like a wall with everyone & says he dont deserve love?

As he is the only person to earn he does not talk to his mom coz he don’t want to be dependent but now he can't balance he can't give time to me he has his clg his work he feels very pressured and wants to focus on his...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why are relationships so hard?

I am just sitting here, mourning my last relationship and every experience I've ever been through. Why does it seem so hard to meet someone you're attracted to, and then for both of you to take the time and effort to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Why do people expect me to change in a negative way when I grow up?

Naturally, my personality is a positive one. I'm an optimistic person and I try my best to stay on positive side. I have already passed that immature and hatred phase. I'm not going to barge but I am mature enough to...

Apulu_Imback

Explorer Age: 17

Is there someone you're willing to forgive right here right now, if so, leave their first name below, and what you're forgiving them for?

Forgiving does not mean what they did was ok, or even that you have to have them in your life, it just means you deserve peace, you're letting it go. You won't speak bad of them anymore, you won't be dwelling on the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

WHY ARE MEN SO CONFUSING?

I had a conversation with my boyfriend, he said he felt like he wasn’t ready for the relationship and was apologising for rushing it. I was left confused, so today I asked him about the stays of the relationship (for...

babylina96

Xper 3 Age: 30

If a friend was dishonest to you, Would you still give that friend LIKES on social media?

I know taht being on social media and receives LIKES is really worthless like if that was so important, but the people who post photos for everyone to see, they expect people to give them LIKES right? If you are mad...

kitty71

Guru Age: 55

Relationships

Why men and women, guys and girls need to stop insulting each other, why does it still continue?

If you are reading this, regardless of your gender or past experiences based on bad parenting, dating, ex-marriages, or whatever, there is so much hatred amongst males and females. I understand this is nothing new, it’s...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my ex do this?

I have an ex that I dated for two months in 9th grade. We had a very on and off relationship afterwards. He cheated on me and was the one who broke up with me many times. He is friends with my best friend and kissed her...

sopkat23

Xper 2 Age: 23

Whose turn is it to reach out in this situation?

Person A broke up with Person B and was an asshole about it. Person A asked Person B to block them on Whatsapp. Person B refused to do so and told Person A to block them because they were doing the dumping....

DermalPunch

Explorer Age: 42

Person A broke up with Person B and was an asshole about it. Person A asked Person B to block them on Whatsapp. Person B refused to do so and told Person A to block them because

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Girls, I have a friend who used to be a fake 'nice guy'. He's learned to be a real one but now he hates himself (see details). What should I do?

I should stress that he actually is a genuinely good person. He has always been shy and cautious around girls. After I turned him down, because he'd put me on a pedestal, he found it difficult to take no for an answer....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can mother's day also be turn into grandma's day?

To me mother's day it's just like any other day. I only be cooking for my grandmother and bought her favorite classic tea set she been wanting for years. My dad does not spend time with my grandma so I always go every day...

Alwayreckles93

Yoda Age: 33

My friend got drugged and sexually assaulted by one of her exes, is there a way I can prevent him from working for the gov’t/law enforcement?

This happened a week or so ago. My friend (who is a girl) met up with her abusive ex as he stated to her that he wanted to apologize. She ended up unexpectedly blacking out (I assume from drugs) and was woke up unclothed...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do men get mad when say that lying to gain sex is not actually caring about consent?

It’s as if men don’t think of consent the way that women do. For a man to lie to you in order to have sex with you is like being targeted, and it leave the woman feeling broken and scarred. It’s not rape, it’s not an act...

Anonymous

(25-29)