Search Results: how to get guys to not hit on you

Why don't guys who find me attractive ever try to talk to me?

every rare time a guy is attracted to me. i always have to make the first move. all they do is stare at me. then the rest , i am expected to perform. Meanwhile, i see all my other female friends get approached and hit on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Can you guys read this response and tell me how you perceive their response?

I asked a guy that i work with to hangout by texting this : Hey! I hope this isn’t crossing any lines or anything so I apologize in advance if it does but I was wondering if you wanted to hang out some time? You genuinely...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How to bring up the "are you still active on Tinder" question to the guy I'm seeing?

I've been seeing this guy I met on Tinder. We hit it off immediately and when we met for a first date the chemestry was obvious from both sides. We have had only 3 dates so far but it has been going great and it seems we...

Aurora567

Xper 1 Age: 37

Dating

What does he want?

A while ago I matched with this guy on tinder, and we got along really well. Anyway, safe to say I was catching feelings, when he then starts talking to me about another girl he was seeing. This hurt a little bit, because...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is my boyfriend that handsome or what?

He looks good but I don't think he is that hot. I mean he has a nice body, strong arms, shoulders, abs, blue eyes, his face is pleasant but I never thought he was THAT attractive. I actually (not to brag) am beautiful and...

Sonjita

Xper 7 Age: 30

Family & Friends

Am I the problem? Do you think my past experience caused me to have problems in life?

Ever since I was a kid I was abused by my adoptive parents (my aunt) she was physically abusive, and emotionally abusive hits me when I do mistakes, always humiliates me in public by saying Im not a good kid" even...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Guys, why is it that my boyfriend protects me phisically but not verbally?

There was a huge fight on the street, in front of the bar we went to together. He stood in front of me the right moment and while trying to push me over, he got hit in his back really hard. My friends were play fighting,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Someone I know, a random guy, or a love scam?

I got hit on by a handsome man who closely resembles a man I used to be friends with, asking me questions like whether I really love him and if I’ll marry him. This guy was called *Ben*. Ben chased me for two years online...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

How do you get over someone you are still in infatuated with?

I met this guy back in March we hit it off really well, he swept me off of my feet and made himself seem like the perfect guy for me. (Turns out he was just a player only after one thing) We recently ended things because...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Is it wrong to not miss a boyfriend?

Hi all, yesterday I broke up with my boyfriend. It wasn't a big screaming match or anything of the sort, I just hit my limit with him and broke things off. Blocked him on everything, and it's too cold for anyone to be...

clovertheminotaur

Xper 3 Age: 23

Society & Politics

Does this mean I never wanted (maybe never was) to be a goody-two shoes?

I'm wondering if the saying people (of both genders) are as loyal as their options applies here in my case too: During my childhood and early teen years, I've always had problems following up long-conversations. Many...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why is he playing games with me now?

So me and this guy hit it off for 3 months, at first it was amazing, he was flirty, nice, very articulate, would boost my confidence by complimenting and taking me out and showing me the way a woman "should be treated"....

AlexaSixx17

Xper 5 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy start playing games with you?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

About Boy on my College Campus?

So, there’s this boy I’ve seen a handful of times on campus. The first time, he held the door open for me and my friends and he was smiling. The second time I saw him, I was in a car in the parking lot with my ride. He...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Marriage & Weddings

Have you heard stories of people who choose beauty or status over kindness and got married to abusers?

I know a guy who had a very rich and intelligent uncle and he said his uncle had a high management position and would always hit his wife. I also know a formerly good looking person who had two very good looking sisters...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Dating

Is it bad that the guy I met is shorter than me?

So I’ve always had this mindset that I need a guy that’s taller than me. I am 5’11” in a half. I only want men taller than me. My friends said I need to get rid of that mindset of needing a man taller than me and give...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why is a normal guy who isn’t abusive who’s faithful dropped quickly by most women?

Like there’s a stark contrast between my relationship with my ex and her previous relationship he called her names cheated on her and sexually manipulated her and even when he found another women she begged him to come...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

He chose another girl over me but came back?

So I was talking to this guy, and we got along really well. We both knew each other were talking to other people which was fine, but then he started asking me for advice on one of the other girls he was talking to. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Girl I liked stopped talking to me because she thought I wanted to be with her ex?

So for a little context, we were talking for a while up until the last date (3rd date) where she told me how the guy she’s living with (who was her ex) confessed that he still had feelings for her. After that, things just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when guys from high school/middle school message me?

I was never popular in middle school or high school so a lot of men wouldn’t talk to me there was a few times when they would make sex jokes about me but wouldn’t have a full conversation with me or hangout with me it was...

amanda_jaileen

Xper 5 Age: 28