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Search Results: how to get your attention
Would you date someone your age who has had a past of dating a much older person?
I thought about this when I was at a restaurant. A girl my age kept staring at me. She was with her date. A guy that looked 20 years older than her. I thought it was her dad at first, but it weirded me out. It made me...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, Is it just better to delete a girls contact info if she went hot then cold on you (and you feel an urge to contact her)?
“A cat will be a cat and you must LET it.” - Corey Wayne So I was communicating with a girl who wanted to chat nonstop. She even begged me to not leave after I told her I had to get back to work on something. Then we had...
Anonymous
(36-45) What gets your attention first in the opposite sex? Behavior or appearance?
I'm just curious about it. What gets your attention when you see the opposite sex first?
My (25M) ex-GF (29F) texted me 3 days after breakup with an “update” and asked if she can tell me she misses me&pics. I'm confused/hurt. What now?
Wednesday she texts me saying that she is in a terrible mind space right now and is struggling giving attention and energy to her 1.5y/o baby that trying to maintain this relationship is super difficult and that she...
Kingsi
Xper 2 Age: 29 My (25M) ex-GF (29F) texted me 3 days after no contact with an “update” and asking if she can tell me she misses me. I'm confused and hurt. What now?
Wednesday she texts me saying that she is in a terrible mind space right now and is struggling giving attention and energy to her 1.5y/o baby that trying to maintain this relationship is super difficult and that she...
Xanixz
Xper 4 Age: 29 Why is he being so mean?
My boyfriend of four years we been together for awhile and we have some bumps in the road a lot with my insecurities and him saying I don’t support him working on weekends for extra cash. We just got into an argument...
Cass510
Xper 5 Age: 29 Why is that my boyfriend follows all of these hot chicks online but doesn’t like my photos?
I recently discovered he’s been following all of these hot chicks that are fit and have a sexy figure 🍒🍑, and even found out he’s been watching live naked girls on Instagram. It really messes with my head. I have had...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I wrong for feeling like my child’s father doesn’t do enough as a parent?
He’ll get him diapers, wipes etc when I tell him our son needs them. He’ll come and see him but he’s not with him 24/7. He’s not the one calming him down, making him smile, laugh, putting him to sleep. He’s not the one...
graacceey
Xper 5 Age: 28 Falling through the cracks in healthcare. Doctors and alternatives what would you do if?
Many years ago my family doctor moved out of the country and someone took over his patients. I did not know this at the time, but this GP has lawsuits open against them and they are a really bad and neglectful doctor......
Anonymous
(30-35) What is your mate selection strategy?
We are all evolved to act the way we do today. I have noticed I am very concentrated on male looks and I don’t care whether he can be financially well-off or not, as long as I am very attracted to him, he has a sweet,...
She and her close friend unfriended me. I did nothing to bother her nor her friend. Why will a woman do that?
She rejected me 4 months ago. She wasn't ready for a relationship. I've known her for many years. She broke up with her ex and we started hanging out. I've liked her for 2 years before that. Until one Sunday I confessed....
CeeDee90
Xper 2 Age: 36 How are white American males perceived by women on the international stage? Do they find us attractive? How much does opinion vary by country?
Not gonna lie I’ve had good experiences with Asian and Hispanic women but I’m not sure if that has more to do with my personality, or just by being a white American male, that interests them. Either way what I found very...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 What’s the craziest noise someone has ever made to get your attention?
I was taking an exam today and the guy behind me needed a spare pen but I didn’t notice until he yelled out “ Lávate las maños !” in a really high pitch voice like Steve from American dad and he made some shoot coffee...
AnusNdaPainus
Explorer Age: 28 Why a lot of men reject feminism and follow grifters online.
I feel like there is quite a divide when it comes to this topic so I want to explain where all the anger and bitterness comes from. I'm autistic and I didn't know that when I was in high school but I knew there was...
Lynx122
Master Age: 36 Why so many hot single girls target only middle aged married men for a one night stand or a short fling?
Why not use your beauty and charm to target younger guys who might end up having a relationship with you? A one night stand does him no good, he will be forever guilty, his wife will get distressed as well. This will...
Anonymous
(36-45) Have you noticed all the tatics racists are using on this site?
Being black, i can only speak on my experience with white racists. But if you have experienced racism on here, share your experiences. Are they lacking in intelligence, or egotistical? I literally been called the n word,...
Msputiton
Guru Age: 24 Why would she want to see me after rejecting me?
This girl rejected me 3 months ago (she has a boyfriend). We didn't contact and today she messaged me out of nowhere saying she just came to my city and wanted to meet to talk tonight (first question, why didn't she ask...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever been out on a date and actually saw/met someone you were more interested in than your date?
Did you try to get their attention?
OfMiceandMen
Guru Age: 54 How do you get your boyfriend off his phone?
He’s always on his phone 24/7, I know he’s not cheating but it makes me curious. But like I want his attention and for him to talk more with me. How do I get that? We been together for over a year. He’s an honest guy. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is too much attention to your partner a dealbreaker?
I just had an eye opening conversation with a Chinese girl, 25. She told me a few things about herself and her relationship as well as a relationship culture in China. She said that even though she has a fiancé, they...
