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She rejected me 4 months ago. She wasn't ready for a relationship. I've known her for many years. She broke up with her ex and we started hanging out. I've liked her for 2 years before that. Until one Sunday I confessed. After rejecting me I stopped contacting her stopped interacting and watching. Focused on me leveling up entirely. She and her friends kept watching stories. She was interacting with me on socials. We haven't talked in those 4 months. For the past 4 months I was having fun doing activities and exercising. Hanging out with others and living the best life possible. Even getting attention from other girls. She and her friend kept watching but never contacted me. After some time I came to the conclusion that she used me to fill the gap the other guy left. Basically giving her the attention she wanted. But I suddenly stopped. Until she unfriend me. Did she couldn't stand watching having a good life? Is it out of jealousy? Is it her last card to get my attention?
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It's hard to say for certain why this woman and her close friend unfriended you without more information about your specific circumstances and interactions with them. However, it's possible that she may have unfriended you because she felt uncomfortable or awkward about the rejection and subsequent lack of communication between you two.
It's also possible that she may have unfriended you out of jealousy or a desire for attention, as you have suggested. However, this is difficult to know for certain without more information about her motives and feelings.
Ultimately, it's important to focus on your own well-being and to prioritize your own happiness and growth. If this woman and her friend have chosen to unfriend you, it may be a sign that they are not interested in maintaining a relationship or connection with you at this time. It may be helpful to focus on building and strengthening relationships with people who appreciate and value you for who you are.
It's weird because for the past 4 months I've never interacted with her. Didn't watched her. I focused on me and me only. I walked away because the relationship couldn't go back to normal like it was. One side wanted romantic and the other side wasn't on the same mindset. I've noticed that the unfriend happened at the same time for both of them. At a time where my life was getting even better. Didn't post anything directed to them I kept doing what I was doing before the rejection. The more I go back through the years I noticed that she will disappear and then reappear when things where bad for her.
It's also for certain that your crush may have unfriended you and her friend because she felt uncomfortable or awkward seeing your posts and updates, even if they were not directed at her specifically. Alternatively, there may be other personal or social media-related reasons why she chose to unfriend you.
Regardless of the reason, it's important to remember that her actions are not a reflection of your worth or value as a person. It's also important to continue focusing on your own well-being and happiness, and to pursue relationships and experiences that are positive and fulfilling for you.
If you feel comfortable doing so, you could consider reaching out to her and asking her directly about the unfriending. However, it's important to be prepared for the possibility that she may not provide a clear answer or may not be interested in reestablishing contact.
Sounds like a narcissist.. something is wrong
Looks like it. I didn't bad mouthed to others about her. Didn't do anything directed to her. Kept doing my life like it was and even better. It's really weird. Some people can't stand seeing you getting better.
Yeah sadly their are a lot of them out there
It's sad in some way. But what you can do. This happened when I took my level up a step further and started doing more for myself. I'm not reading much of it. I'm minding my own business. But it's really weird. Unfriend you for no clear reason. Maybe it's a last resort from them l to get your attention.